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I Have a Crush

This is a curiosity.

I know this site is a virtual reality so having a crush on someone is a rather silly concept. Yet it happens and has happened.
And I will freely admit it's my fault. I let my guard down and *BOOM* I'm crushing.

Okay I'm a big boy I know the rules but eh I'm human so what do you want. Now if I keep things to myself the crush fades away in a couple of days tops. Once in a while one has a extended life. Then things become complicated. That's when distractions ride to the rescue.
So I'm learning to bring reality in as quickly as possible to dampen the enthusiasm. Things like "she may be married" "she may be a serial killer" "what if she starts acting like your ex?" "she's only being friendly - don't read too much into it" and so on and so forth.

And this is before things get complicated?....

You can imagine what it's like for me in real life.....sheesh.
SW-User
Like most if us...holding back is not always a bad thing...only until you are sure of your own feelings and the charchter of the other person is it wise to express strong romantic feelings...but sometimes our hearts forget all that
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
True, they could have 6 people here they like and 3 affairs and so on under their belt and may not be such a great person after all and then what? Lol@SW-User
SW-User
@Keepitsimple You dump thier ass?
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Fuck yes, I hate slime balls! @SW-User
SW-User
I say leave it alone. They're all fun until they're not, which you know. Though the mind and soul wander where they want, so good luck if you choose. Excuse me as I'm unable to see the positives at this current time.😁
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SW-User
@seeandhear That's so nice, the very same to you. Just go for it I guess. Life is too short for 2nd guesses!!
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Bubbles · 36-40, F
aw this is just adorable. Don't beat yourself up over it. We are human and sometimes things like this happen!
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ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
Rein it in! Sometimes it's good to throw caution to the wind; sometimes it's absolutely not!
SW-User
@ChampagneOnIce sometimes you have to because it's not practical or doable or might hurt someone else
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@seeandhear I don't know if that's the best way to go, haha, but do what works for you. For me, I've found it's much better to just be friends and keep online connections at a safe distance.
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
It is up to you but guard your heart with your mind. Only you know what is right for you
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@seeandhear you are sweet. I'm in a good place but I'll be there for you.
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Life... like the famous movie line... life is like a box of chocolates.... lol

Relax and enjoy...
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@seeandhear you're welcome 🤗
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HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
I’m all for getting to know someone well before I get to the point of crushing. 3 day crushes? My head would be spinning. 😵
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SW-User
[quote]She may be a serial killer.[/quote]

That should cure what ails ya.
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I would tell her. It’s good to get it out there and see what happens if it’s not meant to be it’s better to know it sooner than later and putting too much time into something if its not reciprocated. Good luck! 😁
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Do it!! Come on! You deserve to be happy hun! 😉@seeandhear
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JustNik · 51-55, F
It’s good your heart isn’t closed and your interest is willing to be piqued. Regardless of anything else, I think those two things are good things. 🤗🙂
Now I see much better. Better than few hours ago.

Sensible decision. 👍️

☕️ I missed on this & another post earlier.
Oh, I know how that is. ☺️
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@seeandhear Lol. Great to see you, too. 😊

 
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