Do you think it is wrong to ask out a girl who works in a shop?

@riseofthemachine I could have handled it if it was a five minute laugh, then it was over - but it was at the point where it was an all day thing and it was in your face who they were talking about.

I came back from lunch one of the last two days when he was off and the conversation cut off as soon as I walked through the door, with them all looking up at me. I wonder what (or who) they might have been talking about??? It was me and him because one of the guys who was in the room later told me in confidence.

@HootyTheNightOwl I had a friend and she told my everything what was going on when I broke up with ex cause a lot followed after that break up and I mean a lot .
See the fella she was meeting or done the dirt on me with start saying abusive rumors about me to push her away from me cause he was obsessed with her so he tried turning everyone against me . He succeeded in doing that but these days I dont care who abuse me cause it's not my fault . I took no part in the break up but she convinced me I was mad.
The same person she met is drinking heavily now. I'd never introduce a partner I'd have to a group of people again cause theyd play serious mind games and they be telling you it's for a laugh but it's there insecurities.
A lot of jealousy and all of that stuff involved but I took it well

@riseofthemachine I think that a lot would depend on how much you trust this group of people and her.

Not all girls are easily swayed by the type of scenario that you are describing in your break up.

My in laws tried to make me insecure enough that I would dump the man that I eventually married - my sister in law even tried to tell me that her daughter was also my husband's daughter - their best efforts didn't work on me.

Once his abuse of me became clear in my eyes, I would wish that they had succeeded, though - but that's a whole different story.

@riseofthemachine You sound like a good man. I hope she likes you, is free and says yes.

@hartfire a lot of people tell me I'm good but at times I cant see it myself .
Its sound like your a good man too . I like your honesty 🤗

@riseofthemachine Maybe not seeing it yourself is from being honest with yourself about your flaws. We all have them. We haven't a hope of dealing with them unless we acknowledge them.
Maybe you hold yourself to high or impossible standards; that's a tough one.
Either way, honesty and acceptance of reality is the root of sanity and ultimately happiness too.

If she's not already involved with someone else, I think she'd be an idiot not to explore the possibility of getting to know you.

Good luck! :)

@missbeez I dont know anywhere else of her where abouts . That's the only place I see her .
Coming from a woman saying that why dont you think so ? The say woman have a sixth sense

@hunkalove I was thinking that . A friend said to me you be in a competition with about 40 others and I dont want that crap in my life . Conflicts

@TheLordOfHell see that's the problem I dont know what days she work and I dont want to go in there everyday cause I'd feel myself id be stalking her (that's in my head). Or do you think it be putting her in a pressurised moment if I do ask her .
She's incredible and her eyes are like a 100 wat bulb there glowing that much .
Easily know that she a God in her life . I see these things