Did you ever get hurt by an ex or someone your in a relationship with now
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41-45, M
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One of my good friends stop seeing eye to eye and we stopped being friends .. she started messaging my boyfriend at the time . And I knew it.. I asked him to stop talking to her and he told me I was tripping .. then I asked to see his messages and he got defensive .. I let it go then she started coming to his work just to talk to him and I was like I鈥檓 done .. he ended up knocking her up and moving on himself .. she tries to be cool with me now and I鈥檓 like bitch please !!
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greenmountaingal 路 70-79, F
@riseofthemachine Wow, cheating and gaslighting, what a nasty combination. Glad you recovered.
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@riseofthemachine sorry you went through that .. going through the pain sucks lol but it gets better if you let time heal ..
riseofthemachine 路 41-45, M
@greenmountaingal I swear it was some combination mentally. I'll top it off . The person she met tried to destroy me cause I caught them out and said all sick things about me and do you know what I said to myself afterwards. THERE WELL MET 馃槀馃槀馃槀
greenmountaingal 路 70-79, F
Yes, a few times in my life. The most recent happened in '93 when my long time boyfriend of 10 years died of lung cancer. Minutes after hearing the news that he'd died, I found out that a few days before he died, on my birthday, he had married one of several women he'd been seeing behind my back. I wasn't invited to the funeral because I was now not anybody in his life. I still visit his grave now and then. The last time I put a sign on his grave: WHY DIDN'T YOU JUST QUIT SMOKING?
riseofthemachine 路 41-45, M
@greenmountaingal god almighty sorry to hear that . And I thought my story was painful .
I dunno what to say that I hope your healing comes or if it did you deserve it
I dunno what to say that I hope your healing comes or if it did you deserve it
greenmountaingal 路 70-79, F
@riseofthemachine Thank you. I haven't recovered. It greatly added to my cynicism. I trust no one.
thepreposterouspanda 路 31-35, M
She insisted I go into Walmart to help her choose a movie, even though it was pouring down rain and I wasn't steady. My crutch slipped and I broke my hip; it ended up being broken for seven months, and she disappeared around month two of that.
And no, I don't trust people. :) Not just for that reason, but it's definitely one of them hahaha.
And no, I don't trust people. :) Not just for that reason, but it's definitely one of them hahaha.
yes I'd need to write a book to tell you lol 馃槅
@riseofthemachine Its called life experince and I studied social care.
My son was in a near suicide position same as you for almost the same reasons. Long story but I know where your feelings are coming from. Look after you first it not selfish its an obligation to yourself. If you have self respect others will see this they might not say anything but they will come to respect you X
My son was in a near suicide position same as you for almost the same reasons. Long story but I know where your feelings are coming from. Look after you first it not selfish its an obligation to yourself. If you have self respect others will see this they might not say anything but they will come to respect you X
riseofthemachine 路 41-45, M
@Cutiepi23 Do you know at the end of they all I want is peace .
I got so sick of arguing with people over things . I really just gave on all of that and today my life isn't too bad . Holding onto grudges and all of that , you only make your mind and mental health sick . It blocks you from God as what I choose. 馃槉馃槉馃槉
I got so sick of arguing with people over things . I really just gave on all of that and today my life isn't too bad . Holding onto grudges and all of that , you only make your mind and mental health sick . It blocks you from God as what I choose. 馃槉馃槉馃槉
@riseofthemachine yes God and a life of normality. Stay clued up there are many not so nice people out there. Do what you enjoy x
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riseofthemachine 路 41-45, M
@SW-User I'm the same I swear to god being cheated on and then attacked by her friends. I'm a man your woman and we have the same thing in common . It took me about 8 years to get attractive to a woman again and it only happened recently and by god she beautiful. She be glowing . I'm on my own 9 years now , no stresses , no insecurities
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riseofthemachine 路 41-45, M
@SW-User I think woman cheat a lot more then me . I think were the problem starts is so woman take men for granted , there nice personality and then the woman see's that as weakness and then cheats cause there looking for the perfect man .
Eddiesolds 路 61-69, M
Yes I did. I still think about her.She was a beautiful.
riseofthemachine 路 41-45, M
@Eddiesolds beauty fools the eyes . I was with a couple of them and they were beautiful but everyone of them had one thing in common . They done the dirt on me and how they deal with it is that they talk to there (best friends)that agree to make it alright and then your left like a basket case 馃槀馃槀馃槀. Do you know the worst comment a lot of them said to me (they love me) it was the rock I perished on 馃槀馃槀馃槀
SweetMae 路 70-79, F
Yes, I have.
Azlotto 路 M
Yes...Divorce.
riseofthemachine 路 41-45, M
@Azlotto very painful
Azlotto 路 M
@riseofthemachine Very painful, indeed...and expensive.