Did you grow up in a household where your parents constantly screamed at each other?

Not constantly but I remember discord and occasional shouting matches. My dad could be a bastard to my mom and not always nice or patient with me.

Yes .. and eventually as smart as my dad is .. he left her and took me with him

Yes. Plus a "mom" that verbally abused all of us under the roof.

only one of them screamed the other one just cried

Nope.

No, thankfully