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How do you grieve? I've just lost my Mum and it's all the little things I miss ... so much.

RubySoo · 56-60, F Best Comment
Condolences to you and your kin. Theres no set way....just whats right for you. Even when a parents death is expected we arenever prepared for it.
As you say....its the little things....and....it always will be. We never...'get over it' but we learn to cope and in time the things thats right now cause you tears because you miss her will raise a smile......talk about her as much or as little as you arecomfortable with but remember those tears will always come, sometimes at the most unexpected moments....and thats fine.

Just take things at your own pace. There is no time limit on grief.

Hugs x❤❤
Zoranna · F
@RubySoo Thank you. 💖
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@Zoranna 🤗 feel free to inbox me if you'd like to talk at all. XX

juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
When I lost my mom, everything made me cry and still does. I'm sorry for the loss of your mom...
Zoranna · F
@juiceyangel333 Yes, the little things are making me cry. Silly little things but which made her so endearing. Thank you.
SW-User
One moment at a time, sorry for your loss! 🤗
Zoranna · F
@SW-User That's what I'm doing. Thank you.
SW-User
My mother died a little over two years ago. I went through terrible times. I experienced all the emotions, especially guilt. I always thought what if this or that had taken place, she might still be alive. I can still cry easily thinking of her and her last days. But what I do to keep from doing that is I block it out and think of other things. That's how I cope. It's still raw in some respects but sometimes someone will mention my mom and how she was a spit fire. I can laugh about that now. My deepest condolences to you and your family. I hope you feel better soon. It takes time but you will.💐🤗
Zoranna · F
@SW-User Thank you. I'm trying to remember the funny times, she was bossy until the end. That makes me smile.
SW-User
Your mom was a spit fire too. Awesome. Always remember that. 🤗@Zoranna
SW-User
There's no right or wrong way. Just be kind to yourself. Xx
Zoranna · F
@SW-User Thank you. I know there's not. Sometimes I want to scream and other times I ... try to remember the fun times.
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
almost lost my mom 2 weeks ago,traveling by plane this weekend to see her,
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Zoranna she pulled through,but thank you,going next week,she's 80,
Zoranna · F
@Bluesky52 Sorry, I misread what you wrote. So happy for you that she pulled through. Enjoy your visit, I'm sure she'll be delighted to see you.
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Zoranna thanks,a long way there,looking forward to it,
SW-User
Sorry about your loss. Just do it your way and let the time heal you. Power to you and may her soul Rest In Peace.
Zoranna · F
@SW-User Thank you.
Sorry to hear Zoranna
My mom passed a year ago
And I'm floating in an aimless space
Without my tether...
Zoranna · F
@butterflymind1 Awww I'm so sorry for your loss too.
Peaches · F
I guess we all grieve differently.😔I like to be alone. I'm so sorry for your loss. I see this is an older post, 💙but something like this can feel like it happened yesterday. It's true that time can be a healer, I hope you can begin to smile again when you think of her.😌💗
Peaches · F
@Zoranna I talk to my brother and sister on the other side too.😌✨ I'm glad to know you're healing, 🤗🕊️ we will always miss them.💜
Zoranna · F
@Peaches I was having a bit of a weepy morning but have cheered up now. 😌 I do that when I read nice, caring posts such as yours as I'm a sook basically. lol It's theraputic though. I'm so sorry about the loss of your brother and sister. 😔
One thing I'm really grateful for though is that she has missed all this regarding the virus. I would have been beside myself with worry about her. Small mercies huh? Keep safe Peaches, thank you again and we'll both keep smiling. 🤗💖
Peaches · F
@Zoranna Yes, 🤗thank goodness she missed this ugly virus. I'm so happy no one can ever take away our precious memories! 🌟I'm smiling NOW, ☺️💗you stay safe too my friend. 🌷
Portia · 41-45
Sorry for your loss 😔 I guess it will take its own course. Try to write, that's what I would do. I would collect as many memories as I could and put them in writing. Writing for me is cathartic. May she rest in peace ❤️
Zoranna · F
@Portia That's a good idea actually, I might just do that. Thank you.
Ian123 · 61-69, M
It is the little things that break your heart. Im so sorry, just remember the good things and take care of yourself 🤗
Zoranna · F
@Ian123 It sure is. Thank you for understanding.
SW-User
I am so very, very sorry my friend. Be gentle with yourself and give yourself plenty of time and space to experience your feelings.
Zoranna · F
@SW-User Thank you so much.
Fairydust · F
I’m sorry for your loss, it takes time 🤗 x
msros · F
Death is hard to deal with. Sorry for your loss.
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
very quietly. And sorry to hear
Zoranna · F
@ButterRobot That's my way, thanks.
WeighedDown · 36-40, M
I don't it's and it's a problem
SW-User
I'm so sorry.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
My deepest condolences. Just feel what you want. Do not place any expectations on yourself. Rely on your beliefs system and let people know it's ok to speak freely with you. Sometimes people are afraid to comfort you because they don't know what to say. This part of life is really hard and only time will heal the wound enough that you can remember her with more joy and less pain.
Zoranna · F
@REMsleep You're so right; people don't know what to say and I know that. Thank you.
SW-User
Zoranna · F
@bijouxbroussard I'm just SO sad at the moment. 😢
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Zoranna · F
@sspec Pray? Sorry I don't do prayers, I'm an Agnostic.
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Zoranna · F
@sspec Thank you. 🤗

 
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