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What should I do? *UPDATE*

Okay, so if you have no idea what’s going on, please refer to this question I asked earlier: What should I do?
https://similarworlds.com/33-Experiences/2294288-What-should-I-do-So-I-dont-have-very-long-but-I?sort=1
So. I talked in length to my family and friends about the notes left on my car. Because both instances had occurred at school, there was no visible damage done to my vehicle, and no threats were made, my parents encouraged me to just leave it alone and not bother campus security. Simply because, for all we know, it could just be friends of mine trying to mess with me. (My best friend and her boyfriend were getting tickets for my show AT school the same day that the first note appeared on my car. Maybe it’s them?) Three days go by. I walk out of rehearsal. I walk out to my car, and I see this note:

Now, for reference, here is how “close” I was to the line.
Also, on this particular night, we were rehearsing in a classroom. I parked in a lot that had hardly any cars in it. If this is someone who “tapped my car” they could’ve parked ANYWHERE else. However, this note doesn’t say anything about hitting my car, so I don’t know why someone went that far out of their way to leave a note, when PLENTY of other college students park FAR worse than I do. My parents then assure me it’s probably my best friends pranking me, and I leave it alone. Then, last Monday, I only had one class that let out very early. (I was in the building for half an hour, tops.) Then, I drove around with my friend all day, and we went to the mall. At one point, I suggested to my friend that we go to her boyfriend’s house before dinner. She says that she doesn’t really want to go there just to then go out to dinner immediately after, so we continue to walk around the mall. (But she had been texting someone the whole time.) Upon getting back to my car, we see this note:
Granted, my friend and I don’t know if it was there since school and we just didn’t notice it until we got out of the mall, but it seems unlikely. (We were on the highway going 75 during the day. Even under my wipers, I assume it would have blown away or would’ve flapped in the wind and caught my attention.) Then, I FLIP out. I FaceTime my mom, and tell her that I think I’m being stalked or something. My friend and parents both assure me that it probably happened at school, and we just didn’t notice it until we got to the mall, or that whoever saw my car at the mall thought “Hey! It’s that car from school we always leave notes on, let’s leave a note here, too!” And the funny thing is, I DID park kind of bad at the mall. My friend and I were joking about it when we got out of the car and joked about another note being left. My dad thinks my best friend found time to do it without my noticing, and my mom thinks that my best friend texted her boyfriend and had him put it there while we were in the mall. So, now I’m beginning to think it’s them, but I don’t know. So, anyways. That’s the update!
SW-User
If your friend doesn't admit to it after you tell her you're going to the police because "this is stalker behavior," invest in an inexpensive dash cam for your car. Don't tell anyone you're doing it. When it happens again and it's not someone you're friends with, you'll have some evidence to hand off to police. It'll aid them in identifying a stranger.

https://www.tomsguide.com/us/best-cheap-dash-cams,review-5781.html
Wow, that’s so scary! I hope everything turned out okay!@SW-User
SW-User
@marilynmichelle Yes, thanks. I also hope it's just your friends messing with you.
Me too! @SW-User
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
100% tell campus security , make copies of notes and give them to them
@DownTheStreet I’d never even thought of that.
Abrienda · 26-30, F
@marilynmichelle Agreed. Okay just reading this someone might say "Oh don't overreact just forget it...." but no. Someone is taking time out of their life to do this. That means its worth enough to them to harass you.

If its a "stranger" that only means they are a stranger only to you but know who YOU are. The crazy level among people now is so high that you should definitely contact campus security.

Meanwhile try to get a handwriting sample of your friend and her bf. If she is doing this you don't have a friend...you have an enemy.

Good luck!
Abrienda · 26-30, F
@marilynmichelle Oh one more thing. You wrote that if its your friend then its alright you need not worry. Actually if its your "friend" then I'm sorry but I think you need to worry more.
SW-User
I think it's kinda crazy that your parents haven't made you go to security yet
@SW-User They think it’s just my friends messing with me.
SW-User
@marilynmichelle yeah but you don't know who it is
True. I don’t know. I think they aren’t concerned because they assume someone is just messing around, or they aren’t concerned because no one has said anything threatening. @SW-User
Rob04 · 18-21, M
Park the car from a visible view point, hide behind something then spy! Alternately u can set mobile on record, keep it in car but hidden n see who been popping by once u get in car n replay vid.

 
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