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Do you find being nice hard?

I try but it doesn't last. I'm very honest with people and at times it comes off as bitchy but I do it because I don't like holding grudges against people. If you do me wrong I like to address it on the spot. Most people don't take it well but honesty keeps me from holding things in and falling into depression
I find being mean and bitchy difficult
Karmalives · 51-55, M
No, I’m not a bitch unless I need to be.

Like you, I’m blunt and confront problems as soon as I can... I don’t like to ignore them/hold grudges as you’ve said. I can’t.

I’m a pretty easy going person over all. I don’t put up with bullshit, but you won’t see that side unless you’ve called for it.

Maybe try to figure out why you’re angry, and if it’s worth the energy/thought...

Be kind when approached, we have no reason not to be. Unless we do... don’t let them phase you too much.
karysma · 31-35, F
@LithiumDrop I guess I take out my frustrations on other people. If I had it my way I'd rather not talk to anybody to avoid saying offensive things but they keep making conversation till I stop thinking before talking and end up staying something to upset somebody
nem16 · 36-40, M
Depends on the other person,but not usually.
Karmalives · 51-55, M
@nem16 just because someone throws you a ball does NOT Mean you have to catch it. 😜
nem16 · 36-40, M
@Karmalives Lol,true.
Karmalives · 51-55, M
No I dont..... Say what you mean,Mean what you say... Just don't say it mean 😜 have a great day.
SW-User
I don’t find being kind hard. Im really sweet by nature. But I am like you in my honesty. If I feel disrespected or harmed I address it immediately.
SW-User
Oh I really like a lady who’s not afraid to say what’s on her mind 😏
SW-User
au contraire
I find being mean difficult
SW-User
It depends on who I am being nice to.
SW-User
Specialyouare · 31-35, F
You are awesome! I so wish more people were like you instead of talking shit behind others’ back!
karysma · 31-35, F
@Specialyouare This is what I always tell my family. I guess they'd rather I gossip than say it to their face
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Chickie · F
I do, people have always been mean to me so much and when I have tried to do the "be the better person" thing I guess some take it as a sign of weakness and run over you. I don't trust a lot of people to be nice too they'll just turn around and be mean again
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karysma · 31-35, F
@DDonde how do you do it. Any tricks?
DDonde · 31-35, M
@karysma I'm just very conflict-averse. I don't like seeing people get upset. I'm not saying the way I handle things is necessarily good either... I'm trying to think of tricks...

 
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