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Why do people have to be rude when they don't agree with your opinion/question/post? it's ok not to have the same opinion but what makes them be rude

GerOttman · 61-69, M
They don't >> have << to be rude. They just seem to enjoy it! And really at some level they know if they acted like that in the real world, someone would punch them. I kind of enjoy it when a person has so little courage they need to pretend to be tough on the internet. It's like they shared a little secret with me about how insecure and unimportant they are.
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@GerOttman how nicely put <3
Haven't you noticed the polarization in politics? As a society we have sadly just about lost the art of civil discourse.
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@VeronicaJane am sure of that.. but it makes me stop being vocal about my freedom of expressing here then.. things i get to share here are the things i cant be saying to people otherwise.. and thats the only reason why am here.. but nobody understands.. if you dont like whats going on in my life then just ignore my post.. why do you have to respond and spread hatred for no reason.. :( sad but am glad there are people like you in this world who know what respect means.. (for ref. pls go through my posts if thats fine with you)
@LongHairedCougar coming back to our original question.

It is sad that the practice of civil discourse seems to becoming a lost art.

We don't necessarily agree, but I can understand why you are doing what you are.

We can discuss civilly.

You are right. One of the huge attractions is anonyminity and being able to say/ask things we might not dare IRL.

Sadly, some people choose to use this same anonyminity as a cloak to flame others, often doing things that they themselves might not do IRL.

Of course, this being SW, you can always resort to mute/block as a means of self protection.
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
I think the roots have long been there... Such phrases as my country right or wrong don't leave much room for discussion
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@ozgirl512 true that.. that's what happens with me all the time
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@LongHairedCougar from an external point of view, it's like a mass insecurity...I have this world view in my head and don't you dare destroy it with other viewpoints... If that makes any sense
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@ozgirl512 yeah..
ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M
many people have no empathy !!! and they don't know how to express themselves properly !! so all that pent up anger is expressed in their replies....
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@ChatterinSeuss true that.. sad but the hard core reality of this sinking world :(
Amylynne · 26-30, F
that has become a problem the the US
a communicable madness has swept our country.
any one that does not agree,, is AN ENEMY

I hate what has happened, I hate the loss of civil discourse.
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@Amylynne oh wow.. am sure you know it all then
Amylynne · 26-30, F
@LongHairedCougar far from it!
[i]so much to learn,[/i] and your personal experiences would be Very enlightening
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
Holdfirm · 61-69, M
I guess it’s just people, don’t let it put you off in anyway,
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@Holdfirm some people are just crazy.. am sorry if you dont have a life that has alot on offer.. but that doesnt make you hate me.. how i wish people were humane :(
Holdfirm · 61-69, M
Most people have little to offer but are afraid to admit
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@Holdfirm with you.. it hurts though
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Who knows? I was wondering the same thing... I guess it's because they think they're right and that their way is the only way.
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
They are hidden behind a screen so it’s easy.
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@dreamsicle am sure.. do you think there could be anything about a person that can make you go mad and start being rude?
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
@LongHairedCougar Abusivive language and attacks. Although, for the most, I would hope I left the exchange before that. I try not to engage in name calling and personal attacks.
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@dreamsicle it's a bad bad world out there
welcome to 2018.. if you dont agree with me you literally hitler.. you fascist.

 
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