I don’t know what to do, my girlfriends carer is horrible to me especially today!
The individual I’ve interacted with today (the carer) is a complete !!!!!
I had somehow, unintentionally offended her by asking why she was threw a child’s clothes that don’t fit her away instead of still letting the kid keep them as well as the new ones that were bought, the answer was that the mum would still make the kid wear the small clothes as well. That’s fine, that was a perfectly understandable thing to do, wonderful. The individual left the room to do something and a little bit later came back in and was like ‘ right we’re gonna have to talk about what just happened because I’m uncomfortable and you were uncomfortable so we’ve gotta sort out this problem’ then sat down and started badgering me and insulting me and claimed that I knew what I did and was just choosing to carry on, I questioned what part I actually did wrong and she just said everything and that I was trying to contradict her and she left again. I ended up crying a little bit so was cuddled with my friend for a few minutes and was pretty much ok and then the woman came in again and decided that my emotions were now offensive, that ‘you’ve clearly got emotions about the situation so, come on’ and started badgering me over that! I can not stand people being horrible about my emotions so naturally I started to get a bit tearful again but it was ok i managed to control it.
It ended up that she just decided to do her own thing elsewhere again and my friend didn’t even get why she was acting how she was.
I don’t actually like the woman very much anyway because she can be very condescending and ‘I’m right and I’m smarter than you because I’ve seen/done/had/been etc..’ she also doesn’t listen ether and I was tolerating it but now I’m screwed because I cant deal with that again but that person is pretty much the only way I can see my girlfriend so I don’t know what to do! It’s messed with my head really badly and I feel sick because of it now too.
I had somehow, unintentionally offended her by asking why she was threw a child’s clothes that don’t fit her away instead of still letting the kid keep them as well as the new ones that were bought, the answer was that the mum would still make the kid wear the small clothes as well. That’s fine, that was a perfectly understandable thing to do, wonderful. The individual left the room to do something and a little bit later came back in and was like ‘ right we’re gonna have to talk about what just happened because I’m uncomfortable and you were uncomfortable so we’ve gotta sort out this problem’ then sat down and started badgering me and insulting me and claimed that I knew what I did and was just choosing to carry on, I questioned what part I actually did wrong and she just said everything and that I was trying to contradict her and she left again. I ended up crying a little bit so was cuddled with my friend for a few minutes and was pretty much ok and then the woman came in again and decided that my emotions were now offensive, that ‘you’ve clearly got emotions about the situation so, come on’ and started badgering me over that! I can not stand people being horrible about my emotions so naturally I started to get a bit tearful again but it was ok i managed to control it.
It ended up that she just decided to do her own thing elsewhere again and my friend didn’t even get why she was acting how she was.
I don’t actually like the woman very much anyway because she can be very condescending and ‘I’m right and I’m smarter than you because I’ve seen/done/had/been etc..’ she also doesn’t listen ether and I was tolerating it but now I’m screwed because I cant deal with that again but that person is pretty much the only way I can see my girlfriend so I don’t know what to do! It’s messed with my head really badly and I feel sick because of it now too.
