Adult son giving me a hard time. Am about to toss him out on his ear. Do not need the freaking hassle.

@JustLikeGreta Well if you really want to spank him it does not matter how tall he is.Just put him over one knee instead of both knees. But did you have a talk with him before you allowed him to move back in? If it is not working out well just give him notice he is to move out by the month and stick to it, The past is the past if he keeps on bring it up well then say to him then "Why did you move back in" I am guess you throw him out because of his actions so tell him that.

@updown2020 We are fine now.

@JustLikeGreta Well okay I hope he is working and paying you room and board? It's not a question whether you need the money or not it's a question of life is not free and any where else he lived he would have bills to pay.

@Brett333e He is an adult..

I understand. I still learn from my parents, the way they work through things, and I'm well into adulthood. Just a thought, not a judgment. You know your situation best and I hope the best for you and your family.

@JustLikeGreta I say, don't be an enabler. Get him out and on his own.

@Jack4054 not an enabler, he is resentful about the past where I did toss him out..t

@JustLikeGreta But stand up and set an example for him. Life is no bed of roses and you need to let him know this.

@Allelse Yes he knows, but seems to have a lack of confidence...

I'm sorry. Must be tough, these sort of things often are.

@Allelse It is.

@Notmesam this is his home now...

@JustLikeGreta not after you tell him to home. Let him be an adult..