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Do you have any wasteful friends or family who spend all their money on fancy stuff then expect you to give them money for food?

A friend does this frequently, and despite her having kids we've all told her no and to stop spending. It's very selfish as we all budget our money and save some and each time we've loaned her money she never gives it back, yet shows up wearing new clothes etc
mljenkins · 51-55, F
Maybe she got a sugar daddy for them new clothes. But seriously though, shopping can be an addiction and she may néed professional help
Scarboroughfair · 51-55, F
@mljenkins no, her and her husband both work, but have to have the best of everything.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
My brother. He has no money for food or rent but he has wardrobes of outfits: Pants, shirts, belts, shoes, watches. The newest clothes I were is 5 years old!
Scarboroughfair · 51-55, F
@Thevy29 yes she's exactly the same and the kids don't understand the word NO and have way too many toys.
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SW-User
Fortunately no
Isn't giving/loaning her money like giving an alcoholic bottles of scotch?
Scarboroughfair · 51-55, F
@SW-User yes it has become a habit.
SweetDreamsRubi · 31-35, F
[c=#800055]that sounds exactly like my oldest sister, I don't give her anything but I also don't talk to her so all the better for me. Shes the only one who is like that which I dont get because we grew up poor af... its a good thing you stopped givng money to your friend![/c]
SweetDreamsRubi · 31-35, F
@Scarboroughfair [c=#800055]shes also just a jerk. To know you have kids and not buy their food first is plain neglect, then to ask friends for money.. 🙄[/c]
Scarboroughfair · 51-55, F
@SweetDreamsRubi she needs a good kick up the arse
SweetDreamsRubi · 31-35, F
@Scarboroughfair [c=#800055]lol exactly.[/c]
I don't lend money. It's my strict rule.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
Why not ?@Spoiledbrat
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
Why does she do that?
Scarboroughfair · 51-55, F
@juiceyangel333 shopoholic perhaps. Some people get addicted to shopping.
SW-User
More than I care to admit 🤦🏻‍♀️
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SW-User
wtf i despise her

 
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