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I Love My Sister

Good riddance

It's now official, and Facebook had made it public. That my sister and her husband are now not husband and wife. All this time I only have words rumours from my mother and sisters. That our eldest sister's husband is having an affair with his office mate. Which she always tries to deny whenever I confront her with it.
She would lie about the husband being not a good provider, an irresponsible father who only cares about how he looks, not missing a day from the gym. She would make stories to cover up facts about him jumping from one company to another whenever he wishes. She'd try to convince us with stories on why her husband isn't coming home for days, weeks, till it came to be months and finally not totally showing up after the rumours has spread out that he's got that other woman pregnant. Everything still depends with her admitting to us the truth while everyone in the family helps her put food on the table and help her children's school fees.
But when my third sister found the other woman's Facebook account showing pictures with her estranged husband (with the rumoured child) it has now been official, passing the link/profile to everyone in our family, that their marriage is over wether she like it or not.
How wicked it may sound, but I'm happy with the outcome. He's not a big loss to my sister. He's a loser and she can have him for all she wants. A chameleon who hides from one color to another. He can't stay for one color forever. She, the mistress, will find that out for herself one day.
darknight007 · 31-35, M
It's good that she got a relief but sharing the link with whole family is not fair. It will only make your sister low confidence since she tried her best to work out things.
Nonamefornow · 51-55, F
@darknight007: You could be right. We might have over done few things. But over all we want her to let it go and see reality is coming to shape for her and her children. She's better off with him. Now after moving in to to my mother's house with her kids life has changed for her. She's earning enough for her and the kids. Buy food from her own pocket, pay the bills and school fees without begging from anyone to lend her money. I believe she's more living a satisfying life with her children, letting go of her ideals. Besides her blind love for her husband will not help her put foods on the table.
darknight007 · 31-35, M
@Anticure: I am all for it but I just wanted that she would never ever be let down by the deeds his husband did as she only tried to save her marriage. By openly talking about the things his husband did would never make her feel good. Talking in private and hiding the things from even your own family would be good so that she doesn't feel down in front of whole family
Facebook:

Successfully outing cheaters since February 4th, 2004.....

LOL
Nonamefornow · 51-55, F
@heybro: And it's phenomenal.

 
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