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I Am Single

To all of you who know, and to those that don't know, I recently got out of a relationship - a sort of trial relationship. I learnt a lot about myself and the nature of relationships whilst I wasn't single lol and I would like to share them.

1. I am a commitment-phobe. I don't know why. I just.. No. Relationships.. Nah. I'm good lol. Leading on to my second point...

2. I actually really like being single. I've told so many people about how awesome being single is but all anyone ever wants to do is be with someone else. I had the same freedoms whilst in a relationship but for some reason I felt restricted. It was so weird. You should appreciate the single life and embrace it. It may not last forever and a lot of people really miss it ya know ;D

3. Relationship statuses don't matter. The whole reason for trialling this relationship was to find the correct label fitting the bond I shared with this guy. But who cares? We may not know what we are in terms of a specific label but we're happy with wherever it is and we're both on the same page in terms of expectations and agreements. So who really cares? It's personal anyway. Even if they care, they shouldn't.

4. Don't rush things. I'm glad I didn't do this. It would probably have ended up really badly xD Taking things slowly is important in regards to figuring out what you want and where it's heading. I know lots of couples do rush things and it works differently for every couple but I think it's good to take things slowly and talk about things.

5. Communication is key. I say this to all people I know who are in relationships. I can't emphasis it more. Talk about things! Then you'll move forward in a happy and healthy way. Take on problems together. Be a team.

That's all for now folks. Thanks for reading :)

--- *Can, not could - the photo I've added has a grammar mistake. :/
SkyBeaST
I agree. But for another girl to understand relationships in the same depth that you and I do.... I might as well just stay alone loool
Never give up remember? :D
SkyBeaST
Aim high, Fall hard :) Not gonna forget it :D
Pseudo69isback
you can be with someone and feel single....it all depends who you are with
Perhaps
Pseudo69isback
I am married and someone made me feel like an individual for once ;)
that girl changed how I took this life and pumped some oxygen in me....lol

regards,
Ali
GenesiusRedux
Why would someone your age even want to consider s committed relationship?
Ikr? But I have friends younger than me who are married. It's really weird o.o but each to their own
GenesiusRedux
I know. I live in the American south. Good Lord!
HannahSavannah
Dude it looks like we feel the same way about that stuff :)
Really? Awesome lol! It's nice having someone who gets it :)
HannahSavannah
Yeah I recently got out of my first proper relationship and I leant so much about myself. My number one thing was that I do NOT like sharing my bed xD
Lol! Yeah. Every relationships changed ya at least a little. It's nice to keep track of it all
diggler
Great advice.....20 years too late. Thanks for nothing. :D
Sorry lol xD
diggler
I'll let it slide this time,but before I get into another long term relationship,maybe we could chat? ;)
Lol!
oldjack5
I've been single for along time and enjoy it. You're young, someone will come along.
Enlightener
I'm always single and I agree with everything.
LittleCreates
Good to know. I am available. Lol
HAMSOLO
Wonderful advice
Thank you :)
arjun490
Your single 😱!

 
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