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Is it ok to love someone and live entire life with that feeling even if the person won't be yours ever?

Scribbles · 36-40, F
If a person is willing to do that...who am I to say they shouldn't or can't? A person can't control their feelings, but I also think if the other person doesn't want them...then they need to step back and respect that.

Mostly, I think it's a very very sad choice. I had an uncle of sorts, who never officially married into the family, but lived next door to the love of his life(who was abandoned by a dirtbag husband and the whole divorce thing got crazy) for fifty years. They were as good as married and all that and he took care of her and she of him. They were buried next to each other. It was beyond beautifully tragic.

I don't think I could do that very easily.
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@Scribbles: @Scribbles: I use think a fairy would come to take me away.. But I accepted reality that someone people wont love you back no matter what. So I kinda moved on but very much alone.

I am sorry to read this about your uncle.
I believe you, this things are always very hard! Sometimes we have to be like wolverine.
Scribbles · 36-40, F
To his dying day, he always seemed happy, he must have found a certain contentment taking care of his love even if she refused to basically love another or get married. And it was obvious she was head over heels sweet on him. It just was sad that I think it would be hard. It would be intentionally going into a sexless marriage.

I don't think I could do that.

Have to be like wolverine?
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@Scribbles: I love the character of wolverine, although i don't look like him, but probably just left out alone like an animal :'(
VeronicaPrincess · 61-69
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Fantastic song.
VeronicaPrincess · 61-69
@bijouxbroussard: Sting answers Breadroll's question better than I ever could! 😊
rAiNRaIn · 46-50, F
20 years ago ive been into a similar feelings, that was exactly what i believed things to be.It took me 7 years to finally realize that i was actually over it already.i gave it time to meet and get to know people and i fell inlove again.unrequitted as it was, but i wont change a thing if given the chance.
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I am kinda off broke in a different way! You can say hammered due to lots of different types of pressure
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Yes it's okay but it's not the healthiest thing for yourself
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Do you meet him? Are you married?@TheCaterpillar:
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I was married to him, we are divorced now. I wasted almost twenty years on him. I wouldn't advise that.
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Sorry to hear this! @TheCaterpillar:
SINAI · T
Love conquers all.
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Love can conquer which is non materialistic
@Breadroll: Love from afar. But realistically, don't you deserve more ?
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@bijouxbroussard: I was way too lost or maybe I didn't deserve this so I can take the pain and pleasure to bring something good out of me :)
abstractmuse90 · 31-35, F
I like to think that those who i cannot be with in that way, i can remember those special qualities that make them beautiful and i keep them close to me.
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Nice of you :)
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If that's what you choose to do with your time and energy, then yeah.
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It can me make crazy :/
Fleursdumal · 41-45, F
I can relate
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@Fleursdumal: Can you ?
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sounds like a path of madness.
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True.. This is one kind of madness
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@Breadroll: I think one can breed another pretty easily. I couldn't do it. I thought I could once.. and it was difficult.
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@DeadCowboy: It is difficult and so far I don't know what will happen in life
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Why live in such misery wtf
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You cant understand this :)
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I'm happy I don't lmao
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@QueenOfQuirk: 😂
"Ok" ? It seems like a waste of one's time and love, tbh. But the heart wants what it wants.
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I know its a though but heart wants it

 
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