Why is there a double standard when boys are sexually molested?

When they are molested by women?

Because our society views women as more passive -therefore can't wrap its head around a female predator

Also with first sex -for males it is often seen as 'coming of age' and 'rite of passage' -whereas females are seen as losing something

Therefore by extension a female perpetrator is seen as having given something to the victim whereas the male perpetrator has stolen something


I think

bc people are assholes and just have this mentality of they "should just be happy bc at least they're getting some"

No one thinks molestarion is acceptable regardless of gender. Men just typically are the attackers in the situation.

It doesn't matter the sex, molestation is deplorable in any case..

Because the stereotype is true