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Do you ever feel likes it hard to connect with people?

I feel like deep down I’m a people person that likes making new friends. But on the outside I just feel numb. Like I want to take to time to reach out to people and be friendly but I just... don’t
. I mean I have friends but it feels like I haven’t made any new ones in a while ya know.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
Don't. You'll end up running into a mob of "know it alls" who attempt to crush all your current relationships (((because they're not good enough for you))) and expect you to meet new friends in a jiffy! Oh, the new friends have to meet certain requirements, or they'll be thrown out, too. Good luck meeting people who an entire group of smartasses think they can judge better than you. Hell...good luck dealing with any know-it-all fools who think they know what's best for you. Most of them don't even know themselves, but they'll claim you're defective and projecting constantly. They'll never understand your motives. They'll never understand you. But, they know what's best for you! They'll flip everything around and make it about you. They can't fathom the idea you might actually analyze better than them. They will probably treat you as if you're stupid.

Good luck.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@RedRogue Opinions matter. Reputation matters. Friends matter. Love matters. Who ever tells you different isn't very experienced. Life isn't worth living if you don't have what matters to you most. In the end, most people don't want to be completely alone.
@perceptivei I agree to a certain degree about opinion, however, for sure reputation/credibility, friends (true/real)not fake only with you in good times matters, both love and respect matter.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@aaaabbbb It all matters in the end. People are followers for the most part.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
Yeah. I hate how in real life you get introduced to a group. Some of them are friendly but then others not so friendly. I don't like group dynamics as a whole, you always feel like a stranger and even though you may like one or two people, you find there's lots of in-fighting.

It seems pointless, I like humans but sometimes it's more drama than it's worth.
Yes, I don't make friends easily. I like people but most must think I'm weird or something. People closest to me view me as a caring, reliable, funny, and easy to talk to friend.
Only with some
RedRogue · 26-30, M
@BeefySenpie Yeah some people it’s hard for me to tell where theyre coming from.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
I am done n over with this feeling. I like interacting with people but I don't look out for it.
RedRogue · 26-30, M
@Donotfolowme that’s good though I like replying t sometimes I like like looking at it and appreciating that someone took the time to give their opinion
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@RedRogue haha on SW most people have time n giving opinions? Haha yes they give even when not asked 🤭
I like to share my point of view n I ask Qs to seek others views to understand the World around me

 
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