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I still don't know if it's sharing my nudes or my meantal illness with twatheads that I regret the most.

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poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
i feel you🥺 i kinda got blackmailed into sending my nudes to older guys when i was 13, it wasn’t a good time😔
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@SW-User we all learned the hard way I suppose.
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@SW-User why did we have to though...?😞
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@SW-User i’m so sorry you’ve experienced that too buddy😔 what the hell is wrong with people
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@SW-User Indeed. Gandalf, not you.
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@SW-User A dumbass* never comments late, nor early, he comments precisely when he means to
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@SW-User much better. Not true. But at least you got the dumbass part right🖤
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
Don’t regret sharing your nudes....even if it turned out to be an error in judgment, you acted from your heart.
Just resolve to be more careful in the future.
The twatheads are another story entirely.....and don’t involve acting from the heart, but again resolving to approach things differently because of lessons learned should not be a source of regret.
Regret nothing....but resolve to learn from mistakes (which in itself isn’t easy, as I know all too well). ❤️ 🤗
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@DragonFruit That's nice...Thank you for saying that 🖤
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I often regret being so open about my mental illness here. People are so quick to judge or make jokes about it. And don't even get me started on the ones who like to think they know more than professionals and say that anxiety and depression aren't mental illnesses at all. 😒
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@SW-User All the damn time, especially "holistic" approaches from people who like to say things like "antidepressants are bad for you"

Yeah 100% i'm the same. I'm pretty guarded so if i tell you exactly what i've been through, i feel safe with you. People who betray that trust are absolute dirtbags.
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@SW-User Ugh I kind of wish you couldn't relate, I'm sorry you had to go through shit.😞🤗🖤
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@SW-User Thank you, same to you 🤗💜
Miram · 31-35, F
A part of me believes we shouldn't regret anything. I think the more things we trust people with and they use against us, the more we become free and stronger. The worst was survived and what we once valued as a part of who we are, we now realize we can rise above it and above all definitions of the self.

This doesn't come without pain and heartbreaks.
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@Miram Hmmmmm I agree. I do have my weak moments (or phases) though and I think I'm just going through one of those these days.🖤
Miram · 31-35, F
@SW-User Nothing wrong with that. All needs time.

I sometimes have total strangers going through my internet content trying to fetch something to use against me. And I can only imagine what it is like for those who have to deal with them offline.

Then again, I feel they damage themselves more than others. Whereas they can be a motivation to those they abuse in a journey of self-discovery, they may never experience that blessing themselves because they are stuck in their ways.
Be proud of your body. The twatheads are the pimples of life.
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@SW-User 🖤🤗
KeyserSoze · 31-35, M
Why not both? Solved? Great, next.
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@KeyserSoze Thank you!!🖤
lovingdead · 31-35, M
Regret both and thus learn from both...where as the twatheads are probably too dense to be self aware of their own twat-headed-ness and thus will learn nothing. And further will most likely always remain twatheads, where as you will learn grow and evolve. So good for you
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Well I suppose that you have to be mentally ill to share your nudes in the first place. So chicken and egg?
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I don’t think that sharing your mind can hurt you. We think it does because we become paranoid but that’s part of the problem. In fact I think that sharing how I feel helps me..@SW-User
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@SW-User That's where I disagree. Well, kind of...Because I think that it depends on who you share and [i]trust[/i] your thoughts and feelings with.
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We are all different, I suppose. It’s whatever we are comfortable with. I’ve spent a lot of my life putting on ‘fronts’. Different hats for different people. I have depression and anxiety. I have a personality disorder. I don’t shout it from the rooftops but neither do I go to extremes to hide it now. It is what it is. If I suffered with arthritis would I be ashamed of it ? My mental illness is part of me.I truly believe that Incan hurt myself far more than anyone else can hurt me.@SW-User
Well...🤔...send me a pic of both and i,ll help you out
@SW-User please hurry 🤢
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@NightsWatch mhmmm😊
@SW-User 👻
UpsideOutInsideDown · 36-40, M
Anyone who doesn't appreciate having both shared with them doesn't deserve either
UpsideOutInsideDown · 36-40, M
@SW-User Wish I knew. Lots of people predatory people out there. They don't see vulnerability as a virtue or as something to protect, but as something to target and exploit.
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UpsideOutInsideDown · 36-40, M
@SW-User It sucks, especially because the fact that it's more a reflection of them doesn't actually make it feel better for you.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
You are more valuable than your nudes. You be you.
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@Steve42 🖤
CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M
Just gimme their names. Tell me who to [i]visit.[/i]
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@CrustyDDingus Hmmmm let me think about it 😏
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@MalteseFalconPunch I know. I suck almost as much as the twatheads.😞
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HannahSky · F
Each a different vulnerability
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@HannahSky So true
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
I just regret the twatheads.
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@CountScrofula Oh, I definitely regret the twatheads.
HeteroDox · 36-40, F
The nudes... the illness is manageable
Rokasu · 36-40, M
Damn those assholes.
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@Rokasu damn
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Both can be used against you
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Let's run some numbers.
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Choice is always good!
sorry to hear that.
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@Coppercoil 🖤

I'm not talking about the person you probably think I'm talking about.
I send friends my nudes and never hear from them again! 😭
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
Don’t see what’s wrong with sending nudes. 🤷🏻‍♂️
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Show me your nudes and I will let you know.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Noods? 🥴 Where was I when this happened. 🤔
Classified · M
Both to twatheads?
Sorry. 😞
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
You shouldn't be ashamed, the twatheads should be.
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@ViciDraco twatheads can't even tell they're twatheads though.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@SW-User yeah, but they aren't worth your emotional energy to even regret either.
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@ViciDraco True but I can't always help it.
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
I'm uncomfortable sharing either generally. I'm open that I have OCD, but I don't tell people which obsessions. Fear of judgement or it being used against me, I guess
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@basilfawlty89 Yeah...I understand.😕
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@LvChris You're a wise man.🤔
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