How would you feel if you heard a man saying

It means he hasn't found the right person yet. If this is a guy you're dating, he's telling you he isn't interested in marrying you. If it's just a guy you know talking, he's been hurt and is fearful of going through that kind of emotional & financial pain.

Dude got caught.

I would totally agree. Not about the looking part. It just doesn’t mean anything anymore. The whole better or worse thing til death do we part. BULLSHIT!!!!!! I’m not talking about major issues like constant abuse or anything. I get that

To me....this is a big red flag.

Everything wrong with the world is the blame of everyone else.

What he is really saying here is:
"Marriage isn't what it used to be. Men can't do as they please now without women opening their mouths and having a problem with it. I mean, you can't even come home late from fucking your side chick without being slapped with a divorce."

Lame justification, but marriage isn't necessary in modern society anyway.

I think he’s a little off kilter. That’s way too possessive for my taste. Married doesn’t mean you become oblivious to what’s around you.

Sounds like if he got married he would want permission to "look at" other women. He doesn't sound like much of a catch.

Sounds a perfectly valid reason to me.

Especially considering that men inevitably lose out financially in a D.I.V.O.R.C.E

I've heard everything. I've noticed that most of these fears men have are self-fulfilling prophecies.

Marriage shouldn't be the "next step" in a relationship. When you get married, it should be because the relationship has reached the point where you might as well get married so you can get the tax reduction and social security benefits.
The real reason why divorce rates are higher than they used to be is because it used to be more difficult just to get a divorce. Now you don't need to have both spouses present to file for divorce, which is amazing for people who are in abusive marriages.
If the reason why he doesn't want to get married is because of the commitment issues, that's a red flag. It's true that feelings change and even couples that don't have too many conflicts will fall out of love, but that doesn't make those marriages less valuable.

Marriage means he will lose half if she gets a wild hair. That's the reality that men have to deal with.

I don't care. He is just a man that I don't know, and he has nothing to do with my life.

There are plenty of men out there who would accept the marriage, and not this man.

Sounds like he got the fuzzy end of the lollipop before and didn't care for it

Maybe hes still angry about what happened to him

I hear that all the time on here. Little attention seekers.

I'm just glad my husband isn't like that.

Why would I care?