Which is more desirable?

Sometimes women like to stick to the age range as well.

Who are you targeting your question towards? To me 20 year olds, no matter how fit, intelligent or attractive are undesirable but I am 43.

None of this is desirable. The idea that people can escape true sorrow and loneliness by clinging to one other person and forgetting all else...is SCARY to me.

I don't think anyone has any reason to escape reality, Reality is reason enough. But love is no escape. It just isn't. The HOPE of idealized love is what most people look for when running to another who hasn't rejected them...yet.

It depends on what the person is looking to attract. I would avoid the profiles that had a disclaimer that didn't want someone from my category.

Older men are pervs with young women. You can be fit or dumb, doesn't matter. Older men and younger women, here especially, are very obvious.

It really depends. I’m not really interested in anything other than possibly a friendship with anyone under 40, regardless of how he looks. I’ve dated younger and prefer fellows within my age range.

What's most desirable is what you actually desire. The heart wants what it wants, and the rational mind can rarely change that.

It's the qualities at this point, not the age.

I’ll take an older guy any day!

if the older guy is 30 yes