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Am I'm wrong for feelings this way.

Okay, so I've been in a relationship with an older man for over 10 years now. And I believe his son is gay, Dont get me wrong I dont think there's nothing wrong with being gay. I just don't like for people to be in the closet, though I can understand the reason for him, his mom is super religious. Their son is 30 years old and still lives with his mom. I've never seen him or heard about him being with a woman. And there's something about his eyes I can't explain it, but I just have a strong sense of people and I just know he is. But I can not tell his dad my suspicion, because he his also somewhat religious and wouldn't understand.
Mind your business & give off an open & accepting aura. Its more helpful than playing nancy drew with peoples sexuality.
WeighedDown · 36-40, M
It's not your place to tell them outting him could cause him to be kicked out cause him to turn down any number of dead end roads the worst of which being suicide
SW-User
[quote]I just don't like for people to be in the closet[/quote]

That's not your business though.
@WeighedDown That's the reason I never told anyone. And I am only asking here.
WeighedDown · 36-40, M
@Thekeeper that shouldn't be the reason you never told anyone, the reason you never told anyone should be because it's not your place to and it's wrong to out someone like that period
@WeighedDown I agree.
BigAssLeech · 31-35, M
His sexuality and who knows about it is his business. Just because you don't like for him to be in the closet doesn't mean that you can interject in his journey through self acceptance and discovery.
So stay out of it. It’s something the son has to resolve: when, if and under what circumstances he comes out to his parents. You’re not even a stepparent. So unless the son is [b]asking[/b] specifically for your help, don’t interfere in what isn’t your business.
TonyPajamas · 22-25
Don’t do that. That’s like worse thing you can do to him lol leave him to his business
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
No, sometimes it’s ok to just tell people or ask in a nice way do he feel his child is a little gay or have you ever have thoughts. Or bring up conversations about gay relationships and opinions
@MrsCurious And arbitrarily outing someone can ruin a life. Worst advice ever.
WeighedDown · 36-40, M
@MrsCurious [quote]a little gay[/quote]??
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
Your right I’m wrong not afraid to admit that@WeighedDown
SW-User
I’d say just leave it alone. It doesn’t matter anyway.
exactly one of the reasons I hate religion cult and fanatic style behavior that leads people to believe they have to hide. I think being spiritual and supportive is the most important belief system modern day despite how different ANYONE else is from you.
“Am I’m” 🤔
@Temporallube ok arrest me grammar police.
WeighedDown · 36-40, M
@Thekeeper also you said [quote] I dont think there's nothing wrong with being gay. [/quote] it should be I dont think there's [b]anything[/b] wrong with being gay.
User41 · 36-40, M
SW-User
... Talk to the son about about it. Have a question about someone? Ask THEM

 
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