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Working mum guilt, can anyone relate?

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP Best Comment
I remember a time you could pay off a house enjoy Xmas and birthdays and live a decent life off one wage..

Wtf happened? And why did we let it happen?
SW-User
Yes this is completely true, my elderly neighbour is always telling me I work too much and don’t see my daughter enough. I don’t think he can comprehend just how difficult it is to get in to the housing market and get ahead in the current economy. The cost of living in Australia is ridiculous @TheOneyouwerewarnedabout

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Not being a mother, no ... Maybe it's time to sit down and re evaluate where and how your headed?
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Yes self reflection is a good suggestion 😊@ozgirl512
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@SW-User I think often we get trapped in a course of action that's no longer the best!
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SW-User
Cool story and sound rationale @RippinKlouds
JollyLily · F
@SW-User Don't listen to him. He's a douche. You do what you can. We can't all be stay at home parents. My mom was a hard-working woman and she did a fantastic job raising me and my brother.
SW-User
Aww thank you that’s comforting to hear 😊@JollyLily
Allelse · 36-40, M
Guilt about what?
Allelse · 36-40, M
@SW-User No problem. My mother was a hard working woman who went back to work, had a strong work ethic and who had a great career in her field, and her support laid down the foundations for mine and my sisters future. We never went without. My mother's sister was an utter bitch!!! And was very mean to my mother about going back to work, but guess what, she was a woman who NEVER worked who was always broke and was constantly dragging her daughter from one rental to another.
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Yeah stay at home mum’s are very sanctimonious, but often lacking in drive and other skills to model resilience for their children

Sounds like your mum was a very strong woman 😊
Allelse · 36-40, M
@SW-User She was a complete bitch to my Mum, all the while creating an unstable life for her own daughter. And it wasn't just my Mum, but my mother's Mum and my father's mother; they all went back to work.
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
Remember to do what is needed
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That’s kind of my dilemma am I doing what is needed or is it about ambition @signature
Your job promotion is important for the future,
You made the right choice.@SW-User

 
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