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What does it take for you to forgive ?

when im tired of holding on to that anger
SW-User
If they are genuinely sorry then I forgive.... bigger issue is trying to forget
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
@SW-User no one can completely forget but you can leave it behind as a part of your past.
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wackidywack · 22-25
@waleskinder how rare you're actually answering a question 😊
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wackidywack · 22-25
@waleskinder there you are bud 😅
SW-User
How they say it or deliver the apology counts for a lot in my heart
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
A lot. If I let you in and you hurt me it’s probably goodbye anyway.
SW-User
Admission of guilt. I will forgive, but not forget.
Magenta · F
It isn't hard for me. Genuine remorse/atonement.

On a side note: when people say they won't forget, that is holding onto it and not true forgiveness imo.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
That depends on the offense.
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
I forgive for myself
KidAzazel · 26-30
Usually not much, just knowing that somebody is truly sorry and wants to make amends. Unless theyve continually said that before and have shown that they're not serious.. then it's very difficult for me to forgive
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
A true apology and never do it again, and that's it.
And yet they are some people out there i will never ever forgive them.
wackidywack · 22-25
@ItsGonnaBeOk How far did they go?
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
@wackidywack one person I believe he feels guilt but he refuses to apologize cuz his pride and arrogance.
Another person doesn't feel guilt at all and refuses to believe he brought pain to a lot of people.
deadgerbil · 22-25, F
I can forgive easily, but I never forget 😬
Zaphod42 · 46-50, M
A sincere act of contrition.
Sometimes, a sincere apology.
midnightsun · 26-30, M
I don't forgive
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
Depends on the sin
Pfuzylogic · M
I had to be humbled by God.

 
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