do we have a Choice?

now this is just my opinion, im not saying im right, I just hate how are either too terrified to say how they feel, or dont know how to treat others with respect

NOW, if anyone on here knows me by now, youll know i like to be blunt, but try to be respectful

I hear alot of talk of "Its not my choice, thats just how it is" ....no....thats not true, but before you tie me up and call me a witch, demon, heretic, commie, or bigot, just read what im saying:

when you speak, think, feel, act, those are all things you can impact, and saying you have no choice is dumb, you always have a choice, BUT IM NOT SAYING its a good choice:

some good examples:

I have Ticks, like Tortures, not bugs lol, some basic face spasms, though these days extremely rare. now while yes, actions engaged by your body that come from more of a muscle spasm like an involuntary tick or spasm dont count because you cant say no, but mine I can, it is very uncomfortable to fight them, but i still can if i want, however its a more natural option to just let them go.

also , sexuality, yes i know, but just trust me, now I hear "sexuality is not a choice" i dont like that, I feel like a better way to say it is that that particular sexuality is a more natural choice than others, your never forced by your brain to be gay, but an upbringing in a family with 2 very happy fathers would probably guide some to feel that being gay is the most comfortable or logical outcome, anmd in that situation being anything else may strange or uncomfortable for you personally

im my case, im a white straight christian guy, raised by a very christian mum. did i choose to be a 'God-boy'? sure did, mum drilled it into us certainly, but I still decided that it was the best choice for me, same with being straight, not that mums sexist, but she used to be a super traditional christian, its not that I 'cant' be gay, I just, dont feel comfortable being gay myself due to factors of myself and my upbringing

im sure i missed lots of shit, but im sick, and felt like discussing this, even with a dopey flu-brain. Im not say other opinions are wrong, obviously that would be closed minded of me. and yes some of this is very "no shit" , but other areas like sexuality are a complex and fascinating discussion.