What makes you lose hope in being with a person even if you love them?

Noticing that the small things I do for them and the way I make them a priority aren't reciprocated.

Feeling locked out of my truest easiest self

This could happen, for example if, despite my leading by example, they:
Are unable/unwilling to listen
Are too self-centered
Guilt me for having reasonable sexual desires
Body shame me
Assault me, then blame me for it

And so forth...

😑no compassion, understanding.

the passion and will to try and search for new awesome flavors of Cake

When they keep asking me for money every month.

When I'm the person who messed up.

Disrespect and being shaddy.

I am always hopeful.

Ignorance

Indifference.

Gotta bury or cremate them the next day

Their terminal illness