Does it annoy you when someone tells you to do something that you’re already doing, while they don’t do said thing?

Like ‘chill out’, ‘calm down’ and ‘relax’.

I am relax. I’m the one talking with an inside voice. Stop shouting and insulting me... and chill out.

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SW-User

I am kinda peeved off when people state the obvious. Like yeah I did not think of that Einstein.

SW-User

It’s just frustrating. When someone tells me to chill and I’m calm as can be. I try to ask them a simple question and they lose their shit. 🤦🏻‍♂️

@SW-User

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

@SW-User as I experience daily, you can't ask people "simple questions"; even if you make it multiple choice and supply the answers, they completely disregard them then go on a 5 paragraph rant about how they're "offended" by your simple question...

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

yep, happens on the time on SW unfortunately.

They're the ones typing in a rage fueled temper tantrum with disorganized, fragmented grammar with a severe overuse of caps, emoji's and 3 letter acronyms while calling me a nazi, racist, etc.

and I'm the one that needs to chill? 🤔

Peaceful · F

That's an insecure person's reflex.

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Peaceful · F

@SW-User damaged people love to do it. That's all they know. Stay true to you.

SW-User

I think in case at point, it’s ignorance. They don’t even realise that they’re doing it. @Peaceful

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

@Peaceful No, Insecurity is shouting "trumpster, nazi, racist, sexist, etc." because they can't use facts, logic, and common sense in a discussion, and rely totally on insults, and defamation....

Dewms

Soooo who am i gonna smack, tomas?????

SW-User

That would be I, @Dewms. These are my mistakes, I should bear the consequences.

Dewms

@SW-User maybe a gentle smack to keep u sensible 😨

SW-User

Maybe. 😅 @Dewms

SW-User

Haha ikr I end up telling people I got no chill

SW-User

@SW-User, 😒, but I be chill. Makes me wonder how they’d react if I actually lost my chill.

marsbar · F

Uh oh 👀

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marsbar · F

@SW-User You gotta let it out slowly. Don’t let it fester. I don’t want anything bad to happen to you if you do end up exploding.

SW-User

I’m prone to bad stuff. I have no way to get it out. I bottled it up for 15 years the first time. I’m sure I can handle a little while. I’m hoping to get back to the gym March, we’ll see if I get some relief then. @marsbar

marsbar · F

@SW-User Ok. 😟The gym is a good plan. 💗

SW-User

Calm down doesn't have to be taken as insulting...

SW-User

When the person is shouting it at an increasingly volume over and over again, it is but that wasn’t the insulting I meant, the insults were added after.@SW-User

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