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How is it that people talk about things? Like actual real things?

I don’t want to tell you how I feel. I don’t feel comfortable telling people how I really feel, ever. Like I can say that that was difficult, I can say I cried earlier & that I’m all frozen up inside now.

But what’s with people getting cross when you don’t unburden your whole heart? What’s with the expectation that you should? No, I don’t need to do that. Crumbs is all you’re getting. It’s none of your damn business! This belongs to me, it’s mine.
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That suits me, you'll rarely get anything but rambling nonsense from me.
@SW-User you’re making me feel all special & stuff. ☺️
SW-User
@SevenTierCrazyCake That's right, one of the circle of trust 😁
@SW-User woooooooooooooh!!
OK then.... As for me I write from my heart and i talk of the past pain I suffered and how it shaped me. You've read me before you know what i mean. I'm not exactly an open book as some can be but I also have nothing to hide.

At least I know what not to expect from you.

To your last part others, when they share of themselves may feel they may expect the same. Tit for tat. Maybe they want to know you --or you to know them. We do not know the circumstances surrounding people that talk to us online. They may be hurting badly and wish for a friend to confide to--or are just bored. Or one that may want a heart to relate to and share with-with no strings attached.

However I understand what you mean and your reluctant to do as such.
@Elandra77 I wasn’t talking about online, honey.
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
I find most people don’t really want to know... they ask “how are you” as a conditioned behavior.

But yeah I very rarely open up too so maybe I am projecting.
@KingofPizza2 oh god no, usually they don’t. But I suppose it depends on the circumstances like doesn’t it.
UpsideOutInsideDown · 36-40, M
I like it. It lets me fill in the blanks myself. Which is why you're an astronaut, as far as I know.
@UpsideOutInsideDown I’m also immortal. I did the accounts on Vostok 1 in 1961.
UpsideOutInsideDown · 36-40, M
@SevenTierCrazyCake :o would you be willing to do an interview for my podcast?
ArtieKat · M
Crumbs off which tier of the cake, hun?
@ArtieKat the base layer.
Xuan12 · 31-35, M
For people who care about you, they just want to understand.
@Xuan12 ugh. I know. Can’t do it.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Perhaps youd want to see a therapist. Being that reluctant to opening up is not healthy unless it's someone you do not trust.
Platoscave · F
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@Platoscave - "don't see a therapist, shit happens, you'll be fine" - 2019
@MartinTheFirst precisely! Big boy pants, Martin. Soldier on!

 
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