i need to talk about something

I don't know how some people live with themselves

I hope you're doing ok, and have supportive people around you

I'm sorry for you pain. unfortunately in the US (if that's where you are) they have the reasonable doubt doctrine.

if it boils down to he said/she said and there's no proof then he walks.

there would be no closure even if they cut of his offending member. you can't unrape someone.

all we can do is say we believe you and hope he gets what's coming to him one way or another.

*hugs*

Hey, I was raped by my bf about a year ago. There have been times where I literally just broke down crying. And I know it isn't a game, but if you give up he wins. I guess what I'm trying to say is you aren't alone. I'm right here with you.

hey...pls do NOT give up.

You can't control others, incl. these sorts of heinous acts (unfortunately)...but you CAN control your reaction to this.

If you give in, they win again.

Please know you have worth.

I think the whole world has gone crazy. Does your therapist at least believe you? You can know you always have friends on SW you can talk with about this.

did you get the rape kit done when the assault took place, or recently?

I know it won’t mean much at all, but I will say I’m sorry. It is very unfortunate that that happened to you. I wish there were something I could say to make you feel better. Just know that this experience does not define you. You clearly a strong person for having dealt with the trauma for a year already. You can overcome it, but if I’m honest I don’t know how long that will truly take. Also know that that person was never your friend and I wouldn’t refer to them as such. Again, sorry that you have to deal with such a terrible experience.

It might be too late for you to press charges, but there's no undoing what he did. He's gonna face the consequences of that action and it's not gonna be pretty. You may have no part in taking him there cause karma has a way of taking care of injustices.

You just gotta let it go. I know how horrifying it was to be in your shoes, but you gotta continue with your own life ok? Don't let that fucker take that away from you. 🤗

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Only the ones who have experienced it, will truly understand. It stays with you like a nightmare, relentless.
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You commented on my post. I'm sorry to hear that. You aren't alone I have a friend going through the same thing. She's trying to be so strong but it shows sometimes. I wish I can say it'll all be okay, but I don't want to lie. What I can say is not to give and fight harder. There will always men who take advantage of women. But there are also those who stand up for them and by there sides. I'm here for you.

I am really really sorry. I hope he rotes in hell and never finds peace in his life.

get a different lawyer, was he a friend or just a attacker?

That’s not a friend. Friends don’t do that to friends.

Sorry to hear that. Take one day at a time. 🤗

That’s just so awful😭 I hope you find a way to heal

You should have reported it right then and there

Im so sorry. Men who behave like that should be castrated...

but it sounds like you have moved past it and have grown!

when the Law fails use the law of the street. You cant change what has happened but you can get him back

I love you so much girl. Stay strong. I'm always here if you need me. 💛

always something you can do.. think creatively. go rogue.

Do you need to talk about anything? Ill listen to you. I'm sorry that there was lack of evidence:(

Wtf. I'm so sorry to hear that, just coz there didn't find any proof in the body it does not mean it didn't happen.

The universe will pay him back. I'm sorry this happened to you. Be strong

I am sorry. But you willl heal. You willl find someone to put you back together.

I'm sorry. Hugs. Feel free to message me anytime if you need someone to talk to.

Fuck that guy. Not literally. Hope he burns in hell for that though.

That really sucks ass. I'm sorry that happened to you.

You can talk to me if you need anybody. I'm your friend.

there has to be a way you can procitaute him?

I'm so sorry that happened to you *hug*

get someone to cut his dick off as a punishment

You can't do much after a year

Vengeance b mine

I'm sorry. Hugs you baby

Wow that is a shame

Aweeeee baby :(

Can you tell me exactly how you were drugged and how your attitude towards drugs was before taking it was?