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Why do I get judged for opening up about my feelings?

It is hard to, so I do it here and with the crisis text line, so it is anonymous. But, I am judged no matter what I say or where.
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oh yea, most will just agree and sympathize/empathize with you but some will call it bullshit because they got real problems like oh shit they're cutting our heads tomorrow etc
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@VomitingWords i guess we're both assholes, so rude.. not conforming in a familiar way
@SW-User fuck their familiarity. There’s no time for it
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@VomitingWords so rude... you're going to hell and satan's gonna personally molest your twisted soul
Sadly many see that as a sign of weakness. A sign that we were content to leave ourselves vulnerable to hurt and for inspection by another. Mainly by men as men --ok boys- have never learned tr open up to their feelings. much less express them. So they see prey when one that does talk of then do. Note that IS boys. Men--who have advance past the Cromagnum and Neanderthal stage of life and are content in their being and have learned TO FEEL--and to FEEL for another--are a different story. They have more compassion.

I speak of my feelings all the time in my stories. they do not get read-but I do not expect them to.

Sorry this happens to you .
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
Because people can be insensitive assholes.
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Most of the time, people don't care anymore.
Ugh i feel you. The first time I share a bit of my true self with my "friends" they always act diffrent. Like they dont want to be my friend anymore but they pity me to much to say it.
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Yes even here one can be judged.
With time you learn to difference people that are truly valuable and those who aren't
SW-User
People are judgmental, it's unavoidable
You over analyze. Most peeps are busy worrying about their own worries. Doubtful everyone is judging you. Be happy with who you are Flute.
There are always goong to be people that will judge you but you just have to take solace and focus on the few that dont

 
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