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When do you know if the help they need is just "help" or they are just plainly using you?

User41 · 36-40, M
Do they help themselves? Ever?

Improve their situation?

Do u have a history of being a doormat?
Sepia · 36-40, F
@User41 lol exactly not me..its just a thought
Peaceful · F
Some are very good at using. Sometimes we don't see it until after all is done.
I suppose when you have to question it or start making up unreasonable excuses as to why they’re not using you. majority of the time people are aware and just ignore the signs.
Lolco · 36-40, M
Oh trust me you know
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
Duplicity isn't always easy to catch. Only those that pay close attention tend to see it and even then often not until it has revealed itself openly in some way. It's usually the patterns that give it away more than the individual acts.
royalblue1193 · 31-35, M
Ask how much am I getting paid and whatever there expression is is your Answer
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If they're not doing everything they can to help themselves, they're using you.
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Mysteriousliaisons · 56-60, M
When they ask for money 🤔

 
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