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What do you think is the best way to most accurately know who a person REALLY is?

MrEMann · 51-55, M Best Comment
Time tells all, if... you walk through some trials and tribulation together. Most can fake it if there's nothing to test the metal of the friendship. Also, you gotta put yourself out there. You're not gonna learn jack squat about anyone from behind a guarded heart. You've got nothing to lose and quite possibly everything to gain by venturing outside your comfort zone. Nothing great was ever achieved by playing it safe.

DanielChristensen · 46-50, M
You do not truly know someone until you fight them - Seraph
Lizabee · F
@DanielChristensen I think this would be the consensus
Typicalpisces · 41-45, F
@Insomniac100 do you think you could learn more from how they behave when they are angry? Or WHAT makes them angry?
Both...but it really depends what you’re trying to know about them...If you want to know what they think of you then get them angry because true feelings come out...if you want to just know who they are personally, the best way is to earn their trust and break the barrier of general small talk @Typicalpisces
Typicalpisces · 41-45, F
@Insomniac100 but still, you are limited by their own perspective.
Lizabee · F
Cut them open and look for any rot.
OzDiver · 61-69, M
Go through their browser history.
royalblue1193 · 31-35, M
Look at there eyes the eyes say it all
Firestarter · 26-30, F
Typicalpisces · 41-45, F
@Firestarter I really don't think ANYONE sees themselves as they really are...
HaHLoBravado · 36-40, M
Assuming such a way exists is preposterous.. people don't even know themselves due to social influence.
Grab a man by the balls and SQUEEZE. He'll tell you anything you want to know.
HeyRouben · 41-45, M
Just be honest and question him. There is no special formula to really know someone one.
Travel with them, give them respect and see their response.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Try to live or work with them for a long time.
Peekaboo20 · 26-30, F
Live with them for awhile.
SW-User
Live with them or work with them
Mysteriousliaisons · 56-60, M
Buy what they eat I’ll go with 😊
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
Impossible
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I like to hit people with a difficult question out of nowhere(I first encountered this while watching the TV show "The Mentalist"), but, without getting that involved, I simply let someone talk. A great lyricist once said, "You can tell a man from what he has to say," and I quite agree.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Marry them😊

 
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