Are you having any internal conflicts? If so, what are they, and what are you doing to resolve the conflict?

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

This is an awesome question. I believe every decision we make every day should include a healthy debate pro and con. The internal conflict comes when we know the right choice but desperately want the wrong choice. So far good has been prevailing but it is not easy.

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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@OverMe I can behave if I need to.

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@OverMe BTW my original response was meant as serious praise for asking such a thought provoking question

OverMe · 46-50, F

@GJOFJ3 *smiles* That's very nice of you to say. Thank you very much. 😊

SW-User

Doubting myself even when I know the truth and that the doubts are unreal, that I shouldn't have doubts about some of what I believe in. I usually have learned that I can use anger or other strong emotions to over-power my overthinking. Hard to explain. If I summon all my emotions, it gives me a boost in everything. If I'm angry, I'll also work harder too, so I see it as way to use my most hated emotions for good and fixing inner conflicts.

OverMe · 46-50, F

@SW-User Wow. Thank you for putting so much of yourself in your response. I hope you will come to learn that the anger is not actually helping you in the long run. (And I wonder if the "shoulds" you place upon yourself are the cause of much of your anger?) 💙

SW-User

@OverMe I think I'm just a moody person, runs in the family. I can purposefully get myself angry or chill the anger when needed, it's only bad if I can't control it. It's good exercise motivation, I turn into a strong person
using it.😂

OverMe · 46-50, F

@SW-User Ahh ok. I am glad it works for you. 😊👍

SW-User

I just need to deal with myself I guess, I just have to get over someone.

OverMe · 46-50, F

@SW-User Hmmm. "Dealing with myself" and "getting over someone" sound like two very different things (to me anyway). Why do you think you need to get over yourself? (Funny, btw, bc that's the meaning behind my user name...)

SW-User

@OverMe I have trust issues and I think I need to deal with them.

OverMe · 46-50, F

@SW-User Ahh I see. Someone broke your trust... That's a tough one. I'm sorry for what you're going through. You will learn to trust again--it just takes time. 💙