Was I wrong?

I was dating a girl for nearly two years when I went to uni (she was the year below me at school so stayed behind.) I ended up dating someone else and I dumped my girlfriend when she came to see me. We did stay friends, but a few months later she started dating a really close friend, I haven’t spoken to either of them since even though she has called/text me lots of times to say sorry. I feel betrayed.

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Elessar · 26-30, M

You dumped her first, why would you even care? lol

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Cos now she’s with my friend.@Elessar

Elessar · 26-30, M

@Strongtea And? Sounds like it's their problem, no, what do you have to do with it?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I liked her attention on me not him@Elessar

Elessar · 26-30, M

@Strongtea If you wanted her attention you should've considered it before dumping her, not after.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I thought i’d be able to get back together with her as the other girl was no where near as attractive@Elessar

Elessar · 26-30, M

@Strongtea Try to see things from her PoV: would you get back together with someone who dumped/replaced you already?

basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M

@Elessar trying to teach empathy to those without is a pursuit similar to teaching pigs to fly.