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He shot me down today and I feel so hurt and mad.

We are like acquaintances. For a loooooong time it looked like he liked me and I liked him. He would show me so much attention and be really nice to me, tell me things about himself and look at me like I was the only person he could see. Then he would withdraw from me and avoid me and it would be like he was running from me. He is an older "mature" man and I was giving him the benefit of the doubt that he might not be into flirting or be shy. He's not any of those things. Apparently, he just likes to play when he's feeling good about himself and drop me when he feels like it and I'm so upset. Today I tried to approach him to talk and ask why he doesn't talk to me and he kept shutting me down and was cold to me. When only last week he was different and looking at me like he wanted me. Then and there I finally had my answer that I was wrong about him. He's probably married or something and seeking attention and then running when he gets it and that pisses me off so much! I feel like crying and screaming and I still have to see him every now and then. He hurt me and now I can't even look at him anymore.
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MontanamanM
Gosh, I'm so sorry. Some men play games when they should realize that kind of playing, is very hurtful and demeaning. You're so above that, and him. Try your best to let him go, unless he's able to listen to a conversation like you just presented to us. Maybe, just maybe, if he's a real man, and a real Friend, he'll talk to you so you'll know where he's coming from and where he's going. 馃様馃馃挄
-The wisdom according to Montana馃槑
SumKindaMunster51-55, M
@Montanaman Nice comment. So are you truly from Montana or is that just your user name?
SweetFantasy26-30, F
@Montanaman I should have never let him get close to me, people like him make me too good at letting go that I don't want to let anyone else in.
MontanamanM
@SumKindaMunster Thank you. 馃槉
Moved to Montana in 2015, from New Mexico. Michigan before that. 馃槑馃
SumKindaMunster51-55, M
@Montanaman Nice! My wife and I are considering retiring there. We are visiting Great Falls and Helena later this year to check it out.
MontanamanM
@SweetFantasy Understandable.
I know that you know, that holding onto him will just hurt you more. 馃挃
MontanamanM
@SumKindaMunster Harsh winters but it's unbelievably Beautiful. 馃挄
SweetFantasy26-30, F
@Montanaman I felt my heart hurt a little when reality hit me. Heartbreak is a real thing. I won't hold on anymore. Thank you 鉂わ笍
MontanamanM
@SweetFantasy Major "Feels" 馃挃馃様馃馃馃尮