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What's wrong with being friends after a break up if y'all were friends b4?

Wraithorn · 51-55, M
Nothing at all. Although I can tell you from personal experience that it may very well cause jealousy in that person's next partner.
@Wraithorn I find it is usually because the ex is deliberately trying to make that person jealous. My kid's dad convinced every single guy I tried to date after him (and before him but I didn't know about that until afterward) that I had cheated on them with him. He didn't stop even when he had girlfriends until he moved in with one of them and my son met her and would be able to rat him out if any more of the guys in my life left me because of his drama.
Wraithorn · 51-55, M
@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere Yes, but us Humans are not all the same and our intentions are are not all the same.
@Wraithorn This is true.
Nothing? But how many dudes were friends with a chick just because he wanted to get in her pants and not because he was genuinely her friend?
User41 · 36-40, M
It usually turns into something poisonous. I don’t recommend it. Clean breaks are typically best. That includes not stalking their social media
SW-User
I think if you were really involved it would be hard to just not having those feelings any more and have only platonic feelings
Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F
@SW-User Yes!
idk but I think some people can't control their feelings and it goes beyond platonic once more 👀
Hush92 · 26-30, F
Nothing. You just have to feel comfortable in that you can just be friends and that you or the other party won't catch feelings for each other again, because presumably you broke up for a reason.

Personally when I end a relationship with someone I cut them out of my life completely. I like to have a fresh start.
Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F
There is nothing wrong with that. For others, like myself, it is better to completely break away.
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Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F
@UglyTrait91 My fiancé was cheating. I still hurt.
UglyTrait91 · 26-30, F
@Fauxmyope2 I'm sorry
KA9ha · 31-35, M
there must have been a reason for breaking up if you were good friends earlier??
I was told it was immature. Lol
UglyTrait91 · 26-30, F
@UglyTrait91 I never bothered to ask them as I didn't want anymore dumb.

 
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