Ever feel you simply cannot mind your own busines?

Here in S.W. I want to feel my words bring cheer to others. Yet there is no certainty even in that. I am/have always wanted approval of others. Yet I continue to mess up.
Words become clogged in my head and I cannot find the way to get them out.
*If I have made a comment to anyone that has upset, I am sorry. I have no excuse. (simply woke up with a feeling I upset someone...)