What happened to me?

Hello guys,

4 years ago I was a very ambitious on fire girl, I was workaholic I had dreams and goals I was energetic, nothing could ever stop me, even if I had people standing on my way I was always doing my best.
These last years I noticed that I have become completely apathetic , not able to do anything, like I lost all my way, I have no map anymore, I don't know what I want, what to do, how to do, I feel so lazy and I am hopeless, I just see the world with a negative eye and doing anything is just a waist of time. I am lost.
Help!

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okaybut · 56-60, M Best Comment

Break yourself apart and rebuild according to your purpose. Try to ensure your purpose is within your actions and control. If it is a purpose you wish to place upon others, it will still bring you unhappiness.

Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

Two years. You've been feeling this way. Might be time to talk to a psychologist and get some idea of what's on your mind. Probably just lonely. Are you doingbwhat you like? Do you have a sex life? Are you into religion? How well do you get along with your family. All simple things but they add up.

MySecretIdentity1 · 46-50, M

That is one part of entering your 30's in growth and development. Loosening that twenties "fight" in yourself is very common. That is why you see more protesters and activists in their 20's than any other age.

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MySecretIdentity1 · 46-50, M

@mellie I was just stating what I was taught in psychology class.

mellie · 26-30, F

@MySecretIdentity1 omg. I do not agree with that at all.

MySecretIdentity1 · 46-50, M

@mellie Text books are not always correct. When you take a test on it every year to get recertified, you don't get to argue.

plungesponge · 41-45, M

People tend to lose motivation when their goals are not shared in a team, where they can link their progress to a communal benefit as well as personal benefit. People can only go it alone for a while before it feels meaningless.