No goals or motivation in life...help?

I want to have one but I don't know what to do...

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luv2fly352 · 70-79, M

Volunteer to help others because all you can do with your life is give it away.

bittersweethermit · 36-40, F

@luv2fly352 I did quite a volunteering in the past which made me happy for a while...but life started to sink in and I needed money to survive 😞

luv2fly352 · 70-79, M

@bittersweethermit I do understand; Been there also. I wish you all the very best. Things will get better.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

Set small goals, like making your bed every morning, having 3 meals every day, something work related, etc. Slowly get the ball rolling and in no time you'll be able to see your life goal.

SW-User

i have to stop myself from changing goals every 2 weeks.
Have you tried just trying things? trying photography? trying dancing? idk thats how i got started

bittersweethermit · 36-40, F

@SW-User Not really, I have low self-esteem to even try anything

SW-User

@bittersweethermit Nothing will change until you take a chance 😕

Take a chance...matter of fact...take many chances...
You don't need self-esteem...you just need a lot of fucking boredom.

coolboy86 · 36-40, M

me too

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

What calls you...? Your pet peeve. Your passion. What really gets you going...?

Answer that, and you are halfway there.

bittersweethermit · 36-40, F

@GwydionFrost I used to draw a lot, but I lost some of that passion

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@bittersweethermit Art is a pressure valve. It's good to relieve what's boiling inside, but tough to make a good decent stable life. Besides, the downsides to art-- works only become valuable by dying, and one needs emotional angst to generate the work.

In the world... what injustices really get your goat...?

bittersweethermit · 36-40, F

@GwydionFrost Hard to say

Silverwings · 61-69, F

https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-powerful-books-that-can-teach-you-how-deal-with-narcissists.html

Area51 · 26-30, M

What do you like to do? i also recommend gary vee hes a great motivational speaker

bittersweethermit · 36-40, F

@Area51 I'm not sure what I like, in fact, I don't even know how to make myself happy anymore

coolboy86 · 36-40, M

damn were like the same person

Silverwings · 61-69, F

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coolboy86 · 36-40, M

i dont either

Silverwings · 61-69, F

https://beinspiredchannel.com/motivate-motivated/

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