I Think My Husband Is Cheating On Me

I m still working out on my realtionship with my husband but the latest revelation has again pushed me to edge and even though I don't have any proof I am filled with jealousy and suspicion.

Over the past couple of months as I have been trying hard to improve on our relationship it's just things popping up here and there which are making me uncomfortable. My husband's best buddy's wife has been driving me nuts. The same friend who got knocked out on St Patrick's day. Things seem to go fine between us until the couple drops by and my husband starts complimenting her which he usually doesn't do with me and this makes me go mad with jealousy. She would purposefully put on these short dresses I think.

She keeps telling my husband is like her brother, which even her husband seems to believe. Infact, I came to know from her husband about a trip to Niagra which they 3 made before my husband and I were married. My husband told me of the trip but never told me all the details. It seems they had to do a last min booking so got a single room with 2 queen beds. It was a 8 hrs drive and they were pretty late so my husband's friend wanted to hit the bar before it closed in an hr. My to be husband at that point said he is gonna put the luggage in room n join, and the wife said she is gonna take a shower after that. But it seems the guy ended up getting drunk at the bar alone. On top of that he ended up getting almost lost at they had to change rooms apparently and this guy was dead drunk and had trouble finding the new room. Way late into night. His best buddy trusts him too much and seems it was like a genuine situation to him, for me I m suspicious

I am burning with jealousy after hearing this story from my husband s buddy

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Hanging2 · 51-55, M

Is there a possibility that you can be wrong in this story. It reads like a car crash but there could be innocence in it.
I think the bigger issue for you is that your relationship sounds it is on very shaky ground.
These questions are for you to ponder and I don't expect a response.

Do you love your husband?
Do you see a future with your husband?
Is your husband worth fighting for?

Then answer the questions from your husbands perspective. Actions speak volumes and if he is not showing his love through his actions then you need to reconsider your position.

Good luck,,, don't let the jealousy eat you alive and if he is fueling those feelings then he is not being very fair to you.

Goosebumpz89 · 31-35, F

@Hanging2 I mean I do see improvements in our relationship bit by bit, but mostly he finds negative things about me still.

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

@Goosebumpz89 What does his actions tell you. Do the words and actions marry and gel as one?

Do you have a physical relationship?
Do you laugh and hold hands.
Do you go to bed at the same time?
Do you both share time together willingly?

Goosebumpz89 · 31-35, F

@Hanging2 Do you have a physical relationship? Not yet, he says we need to know each other better first
Do you laugh and hold hands. Sometimes, especially in public
Do you go to bed at the same time? Rarely
Do you both share time together willingly? Kinda

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