I Am Confused About My Feelings

There's a guy I really like. We talked a few months ago, but chose to stop talking since we wanted different things out of a relationship. He messaged me about a week ago, and we've been talking and stuff. I still like him, but we apparently are done talking now (again) bc I'm being "too picky/ won't compromise".... but the things he's asking me to compromise... I'm a Christian and so I've always wanted a Christian guy with the same views and beliefs because that would be a huge part of the relationship.

Well this guy refuses to go to church, which I understand. It isn't for everyone and that's fine. But that's a key part of what I want/need.


I kind of feel guilty bc he says I'm being unreasonable, but then again, I just think I'm sticking to my standards.

And I mean the reasons we stopped talking last time (waiting until marriage, going to church, wanting kids) I was upfront about that last time... but then he messaged me again... knowing this, yet still blaming me for not changing.

This is confusing because I still really like him, I just know we wouldn't work out as anything more than friends. And now we're not even friends apparently bc he's mad. I just don't know what to feel 😕