I Am A Curvy Girl

I am and I thought nothing if letting it all hang out when I was still living at home. I thought nothing of walking around in my bra but if my younger sister Audrey saw me she would freak out and cover here eyes, begging me to put a shirt on!

I still don’t get why, we are both girls, I didn’t have anything she didn’t! Sone people are just far more self conscious I guess!

I have had big boobs and a jiggly butt since waay back. I was always happy to let my mum or sister’s see me in my underwear or change in front of them but Audrey thought it was wierd.

I feel bad that she lacks that confidence.

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PeterJ · 51-55, M

@LittleEvilOne I think it would be great to see you walk around the house dressed like that or even less. I don't get it. But I guess some people are just like that. Does have a way of making me feel bad about myself sometimes, like I must be a weird person not caring to be dressed around the house or just in a pair of gym shirts that often let things hang out at times.

SW-User

@LittleEvilOne Agree so long as kids also learn that some kinds of clothing are not appropriate for some kinds of situations.

thecharlotteward · 31-35, F

Oh yeah. You have to take responsibility for what you wear but when it’s just family, at home, I don’t understand her strong reaction to seeing me naked.@SW-User

Rhodesianman · 56-60, M

some people are self conscious thanks to narrow minded society .My kids were raised nude so are now very body positive young adults and very broadminded as nothing was taboo as they were growing up and nothing was hidden so they got used to seeing each other nude it was the norm .

PeterJ · 51-55, M

That is a shame she feels that way but not everyone is comfortable with nudity like us.

thecharlotteward · 31-35, F

It is a shame. She’s a typical youngest child, she doesn’t realise how beautiful she is.@PeterJ

PeterJ · 51-55, M

@thecharlotteward maybe that will change as she gets older

Easygoing1 · 61-69, M

Well everyone is not comfortable in there own skin . Curvy girls,are sexy

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Easygoing1 · 61-69, M

What does her body look like? If you have big boobs maybe she feels inferior

thecharlotteward · 31-35, F

I’m the overgrown monster of the family for sure! She’s got normal boobs and looks great but you could be right that she felt inadequate.@Easygoing1

Easygoing1 · 61-69, M

Do you have any pics? Clothes on ,I am just curious .

froggtongue · M

You should really try to get her to open up more. Invite her or bring her along to places that show a lot more skin. Perhaps if she sees it can be normal, she'll adjust. Maybe if you get your sister's friends involved, it'll help her.

thecharlotteward · 31-35, F

There’s no logic to it, when we go away for a holiday she’s more than happy to wear a tiny bikini and she doesn’t care what the rest of us wear. But for some reason she loses her mind seeing my bare breasts or even me in underwear. I dunno everyone’s different @froggtongue

froggtongue · M

@thecharlotteward Hm. Well maybe going to a topless beach could be the gateway for her. If she's already wearing a tiny bikini there, it shouldn't be too hard to get her to take it off.
And again, I suggest having her friends there too because friends are a huge influence. If she and her friends are all use to and okay with seeing each other topless, she could warm up at home.

SW-User

How old were you and she when that happened? Is she still like that?

thecharlotteward · 31-35, F

Well this all started when I was a teenager. Things haven’t changed much though I don’t live with them anymore, I moved out long ago.@SW-User

SW-User

@thecharlotteward And your sister was younger. Maybe it was because she was self-conscious about her own body - I know I was at that age.

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