Initially I felt on the defense side of this, then I thought well, I don't actually use tinder and I don't know how other women behave. Can I just say you're not dumb... Having read some of the article it does ring true to the way women behave, or things we feel might be expected of us. It also makes sense why men can find women so confusing!! I'm going to reread it when I can concentrate better...interesting to see people's behaviours.