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Why would I believe that there's "someone out there for [me]" when everything I get shown points to the contrary being true?

Seriously, it's like they're just lying to me to get my hopes up so that way they can get dashed.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
They are lying. No one knows if someone is "out there" for you or not. They are not psychic.

People said that to me 5-years ago on EP, and I'm still alone. People have died without finding love.

However, given your age, you probably have a better chance than someone much older.
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@Carissimi That's what I thought.
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Carissimi · 70-79, F
@TotalMiss No one demands love, and I'm all for self improvement, but one should be loved for who they are...as they are. If you have to change to be loved, don't, because it's not love.
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
I'm sure there is but you gotta get out and do half the work. Right?
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This point in my life.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
You just need more inspiration. Go get a job like I have and hopefully you'll have a motivational manager like I do. 😊
TanMiaoMiao · 26-30, F
@SimplyTracie 😺yes
Abood3033 · 31-35, M
They can get dashed?
You want someone to be forced with you?
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@Abood3033 No, but I want someone to want me; to choose me.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
@SW-User Notice how you are supposed to change before you can be loved? What a load of BS.

If I have to conform to someone's idea of who they want me to be, to be loved, I'd rather stay alone. That's not love.

Good luck anyway. Hope you find it.

 
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