Some exchanges here cheer me up. Others do the opposite.

@Simplegirlstory: Good advice. I wasn't thinking mad, more sad and a bit puzzled. I guess you either tune in to the other's wavelength or you don't.

@Coralmist Will write tomorrow when I get time.

@alan20: it's just like a family here

@labsrock: Up to a point I suppose and that's heartening. When I think of my own I'm not so sure if I chose the right word.

@alan20: I should have said dysfunctional family lol

@SimplyTracie: The nasty ones are easier to deal with. I just walk away. It's when there appears to some rapport and yet they somehow leave you questioning your entire mojum (motivation)

@billstickers: How yes? How no?

yes some cheer me up and no i dont wonder how they are members

@billstickers: I should explain the last bit of my post. If their position is that sexuality is private and they cannot see why it should be talked about here, why are they here?. I know I'm contradicting myself in a way because I would argue that this site should be for chatting about anything, but let's face it sex is pretty central to us all. It just seems a bit sad if that has to be taboo. I'm not explaining myself well.