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Do u ever feel like someone at SW is talking bad about u behind your back ?

☺ Like just a little. Do you ever feel this way sometimes. Like they say good things to you up front. But when youre not around...theyre not so good. ☺
Carla1951 · 70-79, F Best Comment
Then, they aren't my friends. Be straight up with me. Judgement is for YOU to decide. But remember to stand out in the sunshine so the Judgement isn't on YOU!
Be right, be helpful, be joyful leaving them with a smile.

VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]The question is do I give a fuk? The answer, no. I'm unbelievably nice and fun to be around; so, if you're talking about me, you're either jealous or mad I spanked that azz in a political debate.[/c]
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@VioletRayne: No. I wasnt even thinking about you. ☺
Ynotjenn · F
Unfortunately I have people who tell me or paste conversations of things being said about me.

I've decided I'd rather not know. Not everyone has to like me.
I wish them all the best really.

I'm a happy person and am extremely fortunate. Nothing anyone says about me can ever change that
🤗
Smokey · 46-50, M
@VioletRayne: did you say brains?
Ynotjenn · F
@VioletRayne: It's all part of life. I'm sure they're hating me takes up a lot more of their energy than it does mine ;)
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
@Ynotjenn: That is right! And how would I get to know you? To learn your likes and dislikes? I respond to questions. I am not a counselor yet I do like to offer counsel when I think it fits.
Smokey · 46-50, M
It's possible, but feck em, if they're shallow
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Smokey: I agree. ☺
Magenta · F
Sure. It's the one thing humans are good at...wagging their 👅
I left High School years ago, so it doesn't really matter to me, except for this....

It's more than a feeling. I know for a fact one ☀ told a big gossip story of me to another. It is partly why he and I aren't together any longer.
SW-User
Someone? I'm well aware that an entire coterie here trash talks about me 😂
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
@QueenOfQuirk: Darlin I graduated high school by the skin of my teeth. I wasn't smart. I wasn't even average. However I was getting by. My sister quit school because it was too hard. I stuck it through. Glad I did.
Fernie · F
@Carla1951: what he describes IS pure high school behavior..if we can survive that we can certainly survive the opinions of faceless strangers
SW-User
@Carla1951: That's not related to the post, but thanks for sharing it with me, this is my final year in college so I'll keep the determination in mind :)
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
Ease it down a bit my Dear. You do not know them. They do not know you. Likely you never will meet and have F2F. I am here to offer advice to those I believe I might help. I am a bit older than most of you.
Frankly your words sound to me like there is something else troubling you.
And no, I don't know anyone enough to feel they might be talking behind my back. These are people who build stories. That is just what S.W. is. A chat room. We can ask for counseling from those who might have shared your experience. We all, every one of us are different. We gather here to communicate. Not TALK.
Fernie · F
@Carla1951: will you be needing our insurance information? and I'd like to see your credentials
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
If they do, oh well. Doesn't make a difference to me. Means they're letting someone else alone! 🙂
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Wingz1969: I see. ☺
😂 I fucking know it 😂
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
As for myself, I am well aware my imperfections. Still I don't say bad things about others in here because...*I don't know you* Don't bother me if you don't like my comments. I will however keep trying.
If I did know you, and your personality flies way way outfield... I do NOT accept. I'm gone or YOU are.
One has to consider each day we wake up is a new day. Yesterday is GONE!
Yes we have feelings. My personal problem is, I OVER ASSUME.
Zonuss, just don't let it get to you. Know when it is time to back away. Leave them with their thoughts. Could be, their day is much worse than yours will ever be.
Hope this helps even a little.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Carla1951: Oh it doesn't get to me at all. Its something I hardly think about let alone worry over. Its just funny how some people here have no life at all, and all they can do is talk about me. ☺
SW-User
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@KindChanny: Not by me. ☺
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
@KindChanny: What is it the gives you reason to believe you are hated? When I respond to a question, I try to give my best personal response. Too often I am told I am wrong/incorrect and thus I have learned my error. People are not perfect. I respond on thoughts from my own experiences. And from your own I also learn.
I don't judge and so, many times my personal judgment comes out as an error to others. I am 66 years. I fail in many things. Mostly in my own self judgment. THAT is my fear. Most difficult Phobia to fear.
SW-User
@Carla1951: I know because I see it,I read it and people report me some stuff said about me. I'm not liked, well maybe I am by Avery few, but truth is, many don't like me
mljenkins · 51-55, F
Now that you mention it, I do see your name in several posts when you are not here...
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@mljenkins: Cool. ☺
Fernie · F
I've never even thought about that...I really don't care.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Fernie: I know that you dont care.
Fernie · F
@Zonuss: and I feel sad for those who do care
SW-User
I catched one out and they didn't know i knew the whole time
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Shiningone: Is that so. ☺
Enchanted · 56-60, F
I'm sure that happens yes, and we will never know 😜
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Enchanted: You might. ☺
SW-User
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@theowl: Wow. ☺
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
Nope, tho I don't like stupid Questions. Do ya think they hope to receive extra points on being stupid?😂
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Carla1951: Maybe.

 
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