i am confused what should i do

their is a person we were friends but we made a promise that we wont see eachother only msg now he us insisting me to meet him i have told him i cannot but he is constantly messeging me that if i didnt attend his call or didnt meet him he will do something horrible help me out what should i say to him

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iQuit · F

You have the power over your life choices you can't be guilted or manipulated into meeting someone who is coercing you through means of harm

You should push them out of your life- A true friend would be understanding and not force you into a situation you don't feel comfortable

Remember people are both good and bad ...and it takes 1 thing to make someone snap and do something crazy

please stay safe

GlassDog · 41-45, M

If he's threatening to do something horrible if you don't do what he wants, he's blackmailing you. It's a crime. I'd be firm with him, tell him in strong words that you are not going to meet, and also that you refuse to be threatened and will take further action if he pushes the situation.

Jax316 · F

That's crazy, did you send pics of yourself to him?

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Deadgirl · 26-30, F

@Sunshineh13: he is from my city 😔

Jax316 · F

@silentgrave: Well, if he made a threat I think you should report it to your local police department.

Deadgirl · 26-30, F

@Sunshineh13: oky i will try that hope it works

Justlilme · 36-40, F

He needs help. Do NOT meet him. Not til he sees a doc. That's not normal. Classic abusive threats. It's for his own good

SW-User

Cut off with him. Change your sim and make sure, your have cancelled your previous sim. If you continue in new sim, complain on PTA and FIA.

Deadgirl · 26-30, F

@SW-User i have done that thanks

SW-User

@Deadgirl PTA has started a complaint sms service, just for harassment matters. Take advantage of it.

Deadgirl · 26-30, F

@SW-User oky i will 😊

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