Can u name a quality u seek in a friend, but don't expect from a lover..

Yes but it's hard to explain. I'm in the army and I expect trust, aggressiveness, and competence. Not so much from a lover. (Bottom line I expect a love to be by myside. No matter what. I expect a soldier of mine to fight beside me.) But bottom line the relationship is different.

going to the pub for a few beers...?

Consistency.

Love.

“Of a lover and a friend, the one who by definition loves you is called a friend.” -Dragon

Being good with the sex, I mean sax.

Yes, thrift store shopping.😊

Adams apple and junk