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Why are so many people here, rude and inconsiderate?

Why is it so difficult for people to read my "about me" to learn a little bit about me before coming to me asking everything that would have been answered had they bothered reading my "about me"...and then asking my name which is clearly on the screen in front of them...Come on people, use your head for something other than a hatrack! I am here to make friends and chat, I am not here to date or have a relationship or a hook up. That is not what this site is for.
SW-User
It's the anonymity. It attracts the weirdos and pervs.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SW-User they have admins here but it takes them weeks and months before they even do anything about the reports people file...yes it has been this way for quite some time and it is getting worse, i even get pedophiles now asking about my children....
SW-User
@annamarie65 That's bad...sorry to hear... no question about it.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SW-User it gets bad because they allow for such groups on here.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Most are blank
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@annamarie65: which proves we all have different experiences
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@MasterLee: the difference between two genders at least.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@annamarie65: At least
RevanUchiha · 22-25, M
Agreed...lot of rude people here
SW-User
Idk..It's as if some people don't give a damn about you but only care about what temporary pleasures you can give them. Some think it's funny even though it's not.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
precisely my point.
Enchanted · 56-60, F
Lol Amen to that, it's mostly all about what's in the pants round here.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
sure seems that way
Steve42 · 56-60, M
Perspective is everything.
@24601a: Given the question, I hate to be rude and inconsiderate -- but seriously: SW -- a self-help website????? -- I'd ROFL except it is so sad -- for some reason SW attracts more pervs than any social media platform I have encountered.
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[quote]That is not what this site is for.[/quote]

I think that this site is meant to be whatever you need it to be, in some ways, so some people at least seem to try to..."connect" in that way via this site.

But, though I used EP some, I was not aware of the programming philosophy that essentially said you had to CHOOSE/opt IN to a group or an interest area in order to be exposed to it; the programming of EP v. SW has been mentioned various times by people who used EP extensively and mourn the loss of its overall user experience.

The representation is that an EP-style site would stop, say, the diaper & urine & scat & spanking as religion ppl from knowing & bothering you, I think, unless you chose to unveil yourself to them.

Perhaps I misunderstood, but more than one EP user has made comment about such things.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SomeMichGuy i used to be with ep before they closed down...this site is put out by a different group totally tho many try to argue other wise. I have been with this group since before they went live. actually on ep anyone could contact you regardless of what they were into unless you blocked people from pming you.
wickey · 70-79, M
With the block option available, there is no need to put up with those who think this is a dating site.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@wickey: apparently you didnt read what i said...why should i open another account when those kinds of people will just come to me acting the same way
wickey · 70-79, M
@annamarie65: Well then just think of them as occupational hazards and make use of the word Ignore to the fullest. All the best
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@wickey: thanks hun, i really hate wasting my time ignoring them because most do
have more than one account and they
just come back under another name
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Spitbak · 56-60, M
😉Shrug it off sweets!, the world outside is even worse! At least you can play with the trolls in this world without any serious consequences...like getting shot or stabbed to death for a stupid reason!! Just get creative and blast back...and have fun doing it! I think it's healthy to vent in a place where no real damage is done! Words are powerful only to those who take them personally...so don't!
Spitbak · 56-60, M
😁And it's that volcano you unleash on the trolls...have fun with it!@annamarie65:
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@Spitbak: thanks hun, i do, just like the idiot telemarketers that make the mistake of calling me lol
Spitbak · 56-60, M
😂I imagine!@annamarie65:
SW-User
trick is to never take anyone seriously here including me
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
im not the only one that thinks this way.
Whyme · 46-50, M
You have a point but the other side of the coin is people dont want to read your auto biography they want to talk to you to get to know you otherwise were just reading blogs and might as well sighn up for word press
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@Rebuildingme: no one is asking them to read my autobiography, it is a paragraph...which is what many more conversations can be based off of.
SolidHeart · 46-50, M
I agree with you. Some people are rude hiding behind their screens.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SolidHeart i totally agree and i have even lectured a few that have come to me ...that if they dont want that kind of attention they shouldnt have it in their profiles...but sadly common sense is sorely lacking by so many on here lol
SolidHeart · 46-50, M
@annamarie65 it is a wild world on here, keep trying to stop rude people and help others push them away.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SolidHeart i do what i can when i can lol...
Bluesky53 · 61-69, M
right,i try to be sensitive when talking to someone on here,
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@Bluesky53 you are part of a very small rare breed
Bluesky53 · 61-69, M
@annamarie65 thank you,
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@Bluesky53 you are a quite welcome!
Peaches · F
Yeah...it gets like that around here a lot?!😕 On my way out. Just wanted to say "HELLO!"🙂☮ Have a good evening, good to see ya around and hope it gets [b]better! 💤[/b]
lmao! I agree with your hatrack comment, but we now live in times in which thinking and facts are no longer embraced...
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SomeMichGuy you are so right about that.
lol. reading and hat racks are from approximately the same period...that is why. lol

very sad
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SomeMichGuy 😖 lol
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
Don't sweat the small stuff.

Turn it around and have fun with them. Guys ask me, where are you from? You think to yourself, read my profile page you dumbshit.

But I say, I'll give you three guesses. 😂
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SimplyTracie: if they come to me asking vulgar rude and offensive things, with or without reading my profile.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
I misunderstood the title of your post. I'm sorry
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SimplyTracie: well my post is just that...if they had indeed read my about me, they wouldnt have come to me talking sexually or offensively, etc.
Marceld1958 · 61-69, M
lol That's awesome I haven't heard that in a long time. I use to say it all the time (use your head for something other than a hatrack) Hi my name is Marcel and I live in the Atlanta area. It would be nice to have someone to chat with. If your interested let me know.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
Marceld1958 · 61-69, M
🤗 Thank you for the present and a very good morning to you. 🐶.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@Marceld1958 message me any time marcel...always nice to have new people to chat with!
SW-User
Yes folks are definately stupid.
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
you're right about that,
spandexblue · 36-40, M
I read your about me page and think you must be an amazing person. I wish you luck with your business and may you never have a creative block. I admire creative people and try to be one myself. I just get in my own way at times. LOL
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
thank you
Noway345 · M
A lot of people only care about themselves, it's so unfortunate
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@Noway345 it is the adults i am referring to more so than the children.
Noway345 · M
Yep their the ones that are teaching the next group of adults.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@Noway345 yes i am aware of that, but it is those adults who were taught better when they were children, but they choose to still be rude vulgar and offensive here. that is what i am referring to.
Joseph113 · 61-69, M
A good chat and friendship is all what God need from us
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@Joseph113 if you say so
SW-User
May be lack of education
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@SW-User That would be the understatement of the century.
SW-User
@annamarie65 not all places in the world provides proper education..education isn't just about maths and physics..it's also about mannerism and responsibilities

 
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