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Need some advice

Ok so like I'll keep this as short as I can cause there's a lot to this situation. I'm in a discord group with like 12 people which is like Skype but no video it's all audio. And the group has been awesome to me like a second family. Now rewind to me a few months ago when I was living with a dude we will call him josh : we were friends for like 10 years and we had a falling out and I left the state. The discord group leaders (call em Jenna and Nate) had me join and they actually have played with josh in games before but wanted me to stay in th group.

Fast forward to last weekend , josh calls me wanting to patch shit up and apologized how he acted. Jenna also said he's welcomed to join the discord.

My issue is that the group doesn't like him which I'm ok with he's not easy to get along with and doesn't think before he speaks. But Jenna and another guy have been acting pretty I won't say mean but like they act like they avoiding me and when I try to talk to them about it they like nah it's cool but you can tell it's not. Anyone has advice for how to handle this? I love the group and they are a lot of fun but it's making me feel uncomfortable how they acting around me and like should I like get rid of josh off the group I d K. I feel really guilty about this shit tbh 馃様馃檨馃槙馃槗
Well, as for Josh, if you're friends now, I'd stay loyal. As to Jenna and the other guy, you don't reward bad behavior. If possible, can you just ignore those two, since they refuse to discuss the problem with you, and just be friends with the others until (or if) they come around? You've done your part with them. I wouldn't say any more to them two. I wouldn't let them interfere with you and Josh's relationship. That's really between Josh and them, anyway. I'd stay clear of getting inbetween that situation.
HowlJenkinsPendragon26-30, M
Really good answer tbh I'll debate on this.
Picklebobble256-60, M
that's life though, isn't it ?
people fall in and out with each other all the time !
but it's none of anybody else's business really just you and your friend !
HowlJenkinsPendragon26-30, M
Very true man.
Picklebobble256-60, M
If you and your friend have patched it up, good for the pair of you !
Anybody else's opinion is kinda irrelevant !
MondayschildF
well it is up to the leader or owner of the group to ban him if there is a leader.
MondayschildF
@WickedWizardoftheWaste: yeah exactly! So she needs to tend to buisness but make sure you tell her you are feeling uncomfortable with the entire situation and make sure she knows you dont care if he goes. She is trying to spare your feelings.
HowlJenkinsPendragon26-30, M
@SBelle: that's a great idea 馃挕 imma talk to her if she is acting weird today on me.
MondayschildF
@WickedWizardoftheWaste: You could even say that you would be more comfortable if he did leave.

 
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