Polite, vague ways or reasons to decline family gatherings with toxic intolerant family members?

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DoubleRings · 51-55, F

@geoam1 well if they invite (it’s a formality to invite everyone) then we have to decline. If we say nothing they chase us down.

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AuRevoir · 36-40, M

I’m sorry but I have an appointment with a hooker who is sure to give me a vanereal disease and when it come to who I’d rather spend time with, 😷 well I’m sure you understand..

LilithoftheTrees

I’m/ my child/the dog is sick.

lovelywarpedlemon

No thanks

SW-User

No.

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Vague? I say f*** that you lying ****s.

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

they would feed into that - they would love if we said that cause that makes us look bad @PhilDeep

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

@DoubleRings I understand relating with family can be a delicate matter. My own position is if their values are so off from mine, I'm not really bothered that they're family any more and not bothered with what they think of me or say about me.

Elevatorpitches · F

Say u caught an incurably infectious disease. That will work.

Iwillwait · M

Mmmnope, can't make it, washing my hair that day.

SW-User

I’ve got dysentery

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