Is this guy having me on?

He claims that he can't finish when masturbating because I've overstimulated him visually in a past video call. He claims to be fixated with me. This can't be real.. this guy has slept with many and I'm not even his type.

I think he's talking to someone else actually.

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DunningKruger · 61-69, M

I'm not sure it's possible to be overstimulated while masturbating, unless you have a lot of flashing lights going off around you.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@DunningKruger no hes talking about trying to do it without watching me.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@PaleandPolluted Is he watching you while he's jacking off, like on a video call?

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@DunningKruger he did do but now claims he can't get off without that.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@PaleandPolluted Ah, I see. So, he's trying to beat his meat fantasizing about having the ol' in-out, in-out with you, but your image has so burned its way across his synapses that he can't cum unless he's actually watching you on the screen.

And am I right in understanding that you weren't even getting nekkid for him?

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@DunningKruger ohh I was..

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@PaleandPolluted Oh, so you were getting nekkid for him, then, to fuel his lustful fantasies, etc., etc.?

It may well be that he just wants more of that and has difficulty visualizing without that stimulus there. Some people do.

Could it be that he's having you on? Maybe, but considering that you've already put on a show for him, I don't know why he would be. It sounds like he just wants more of the snacks you've been serving.

What matters is how you feel about it. Does it turn you on, or does it make you feel icky? You do what's good for you.